7 things you should never tell your husband

When it comes to how couples and lovers get along with each other, sincerity comes first. But sometimes they also need some white lies to create a little distance between each other, so that love can be as beautiful as it was at the beginning. So, what are the things that are best not to let him know to avoid unnecessary quarrels? Now, let's take a look together!

A big secret: the amount and price of clothes purchased

Girlfriend Q's classic quote: "Men work hard outside to make money for the family, but no man would want you to squander all the money he earns and put it on you. So, you can spend my money, but it's best not to let me know."

Therefore, after every shopping trip, if the couple returns home with a lot of things, girlfriend Q will definitely arrive home before her husband and stuff all the things she likes into the closet. Then her husband will find out one day: "Hey, this dress is so beautiful, when did you buy it?" Since there is no evidence, the husband must have bought it early.

The second secret: the price of hairdressing

My husband often asks, "One time you cut my hair is enough for me to cut my hair for 10 years." Then he would count on his fingers in an exaggerated manner. I know my husband is joking because he always appreciates me when I do my hair. Sometimes he even reminds me that I should do something with my hair because it looks too crazy. However, regarding the price of hairdressing, I strongly agree with my sisters' opinions. It is even more difficult to tell my husband, as that would be spending money invisibly.

Three Secrets: Actual Weight

I can be fat, very fat, and I can be cute in that way, just like the “Fat Sister” back then. But please don't ask me to tell you how much I weigh. My girlfriend L is fat and beautiful, but every time we tease her about how much she weighs, she gets very crazy, especially in front of her husband.

Four secrets: giving private money to your parents

I am very open and honest about this. I am absolutely sure to treat my parents equally. Other people's parents also raised them with great difficulty, so filial piety is a must. But I can also understand those daughters who give their parents some pocket money. After all, daughters are more thoughtful and considerate of their parents and siblings, so it is normal for them to give to their parents occasionally. I wonder if I am being unfair to my parents.

In fact, most husbands know that their wives are close to their parents, but they prefer not to say it. If the wife can take care of the happiness of her mother-in-law at the same time, the husband will naturally be happy too.

Five secrets: smoking and drinking

Girlfriend D is a smoker and drinker, and girlfriend Q is also an intermittent smoker, but she only does so when her husband is not around. I don't mean to criticize smokers, especially female smokers, it's just a personal preference. My husband also smokes, but he smoked less after I became pregnant. But smoking is indeed harmful to health, especially to the health of the next generation. It is best for unmarried and childless women not to smoke.

Six secrets: internal conflict with mother-in-law

My girlfriend Z is a well-known person here who loves all kinds of things and has a lot of personality. Many of my friends would ask her for solutions when they encountered some family problems. Her classic method of dealing with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is to fight with her mother-in-law to the end when her husband is not around.

Example: When my son was young, my girlfriend Z cooked a meal once. My mother-in-law and sister-in-law didn't help. When they sat down to eat, my mother-in-law and sister-in-law said that this dish was too salty and that that vegetable was not picked cleanly. My girlfriend Z didn't say a word, took her son aside, turned around and overturned the dining table with all her strength. From then on, her mother-in-law never dared to find fault with her cooking again.

Girlfriend Z’s husband later asked her: “My mother said that you were angry that day and overturned the table.” Girlfriend said: “Which day? I don’t remember. Why was I angry? I’m not that brave.” From another perspective, the husband of such a wife will not be bullied by her, because she can handle things on her own.

Seven secrets: private meetings with online friends

A few years ago, I had two girlfriends, one of whom was married, and we went together to meet our online friend. The four people met, and the two girlfriends were disappointed because they saw dinosaurs. It was originally a very bizarre episode, which gave the two people something to show off, to show that they were new humans and to catch up with the trend of playing with "online dating". However, the reality of the dinosaurs made them extremely unfair.

Therefore, I have to hide the truth from my husband and boyfriend. Otherwise, not to mention being met with a look of scorn, you will at least be met with disdain and ridicule.