“Pain and happiness” can actually be very enjoyable

Everyone has a first time, the first time walking, the first time riding a bicycle, the first time going to school, the first time... I believe the first experience is the most memorable. Having sex for the first time is a process that every man and woman must go through. Boys become men and girls become women through having sex for the first time. The first experience of having sex is something you can remember for a lifetime. Some first times go smoothly, while others go with difficulty. I believe that many people will feel embarrassed for the first time. Today, I will give virgins some knowledge about the first time to help you reduce embarrassment during your first night.

1. It is normal to have premature ejaculation during first sexual intercourse. Don’t be nervous when encountering this situation. It is necessary to accumulate experience so that you can continue calmly next time, which will not affect your ability. As you have more sexual intercourse, you will find that you become stronger and stronger;

2. The hymen is innate and every girl has it. As for the lack of "blood" after sex, there are generally two reasons:

One is that the hymen has been accidentally ruptured, such as when a child inserts a small toy into the vagina out of ignorance, or encounters trauma, or sharp objects happen to hit the vulva, or is damaged by masturbation, washing or vaginal suppositories, or the hymen is inherently fragile and can be ruptured during strenuous exercise; the other is that the hymen has large holes, good elasticity, and few blood vessels in the membrane, and the boyfriend is gentle and not rough during sex, so the hymen may not rupture after multiple sex;

3. For men with an excessively long foreskin and a short frenulum, when the penis is erect, the frenulum cannot adapt to the length of the penis and will cause the penis to bend downward, affecting sexual intercourse. During sexual intercourse, if the foreskin is too long and the frenulum is too short, in addition to the laceration of the frenulum skin, the foreskin may often become incarcerated due to forced reversal.

When the incarcerated foreskin is stuck in the coronal sulcus of the glans penis, it will cause pain; in severe cases, foreskin edema will occur. If not treated in time, it will further cause congestion or even necrosis of the glans penis. It is suggested that men should undergo a minor surgery to remove the "burden" as soon as possible and enjoy "sexual happiness" earlier;

4. Men will experience penis weakness during their first sexual intercourse, which is similar to impotence. In fact, the erection of the penis is stimulated by the mind, but is not completely controlled by the brain. When having sex for the first time, men often have a lot of mental burdens. They are afraid that they will not perform well, that they are not capable enough, and they feel like they are taking an exam and are very nervous.

To overcome this situation, we should have a certain level of emotional understanding between both parties, and the environment for the relationship should be clean, quiet, safe and comfortable, so as to avoid external factors affecting your behavior;

5. The most unbearable of all kinds of unwelcome body odor is bad breath. Sex without kissing is not perfect. The second is body odor. Most of us think that the irritating odor from the body is more harmful to sex than the size defect. Therefore, we should pay attention to diet and have good living habits in our daily life.

6. Urinary incontinence during sexual intercourse occurs in both men and women, but the proportion of women is higher. The causes of urinary incontinence during sex include problems with the structure and function of tissues and organs, as well as the influence of disease factors. The bottom of the female urethra and bladder are close to the vagina and are easily stimulated by external pressure and biological factors. For example, if they are impacted by the male penis, coupled with unstable detrusor function and failure to empty the urine before intercourse, urinary incontinence is likely to occur. Good treatment can be obtained through medicine and surgery. Regularly doing pelvic exercises can also effectively prevent urinary incontinence;

7. Both men and women who have sexual intercourse for the first time may experience pain in the genitals. First of all, you don’t have to be afraid. This is a normal phenomenon. It usually lasts for 1 to 3 hours at the shortest and a day at the longest. This is not a big problem and you don’t have to worry about it. If it lasts for more than a day, you should go to the hospital immediately for diagnosis.

Friends who have not experienced the above points for the first time must remember them! The editor also wants to remind you that the first time is precious for both women and men. Friends, don’t give up your first time easily and don’t do things that you will regret.