Is it reliable for a single woman to find someone to "fill her bed" during her lonely period?

The window period is easy to understand. There is no lover and no one you want to love, and the relationship is in a blank gap. The concept of the empty bed period is very mysterious: if you are single and have no partner, your bed is empty; if you have a partner but no sexual relationship, your bed is empty; if you have a partner but are separated from each other, your bed is also empty.

If you think about it carefully, the concept of the empty bed period actually covers a very wide range: if you are single and don’t have a boyfriend, your bed is empty; if you have a boyfriend but don’t live together, your bed is empty; if you have a partner but are separated from them, your bed is also empty.

What kind of life is this, lonely and sleepless or free and unrestrained?

Women who have experienced the "empty bed period" must have felt it deeply: when night falls, there is only one big bed in the whole world. Loneliness slowly creeps into my heart. Will the strong shell during the day collapse at this moment?

In short, an empty window and an empty bed are two completely different concepts. The former is an emotional state, and the latter is a sexual life state. No one wants to be in the "double empty" stage of having an empty window and an empty bed. Zhang Ailing said, "Two people are better than one on the pillow."

So, some women will fall in love with a sport or a romantic Korean drama, some will complain all day long about endocrine disorders, and some will choose to find a temporary lover to warm their bed... Then, what about you? If you have no choice, will you face such a situation?

Every adult single man and woman will be in an emotional "window period" at some point, searching and searching alone, stopping and starting. The body also enters the "empty bed period". It would be a lie to say that you are not lonely. It would be a lie to say that you don't need it unless there is something wrong with you. Half of the bed is overgrown with weeds, and the coldness will freeze your heart along with your body. Often at such moments, some people will put love aside and look for someone to "fill the bed" to meet their physical and psychological needs at that moment.

When you feel lonely emotionally, will you find someone to "fill your bed"? Men, most likely, because physical loneliness is definitely more difficult for them to bear than mental loneliness, so they may do more than they think.

Most women will do the same, but it's hard for them to get into the mood without love, and it's not easy to get out of bed once they're in bed, so many women think about it, but not many actually do it. Many single men will not be idle. Even if they have much disdain for women, they will still yearn for a moment of ecstasy in the "land of tenderness".

So, the weeds on his bed simply moved to his heart and grew wildly. Many single women just let their beds remain "abandoned". Even if one half of her bed is filled with the singing of birds and dancing birds, the other half is filled with unspeakable loneliness and is once desolate. Moreover, many women who can accept being "bed-filled" do so because they love the man. Unfortunately, few men will fall in love with you just because they have had sex with you. They just treat you as a "cheap" that comes to their doorstep and they just take you. However, it is difficult for women to view going to bed as taking advantage of men. As a result, they lose to men psychologically, and the physical pleasure is compromised.

"Filling the bed" is not a good thing for men and women who yearn for emotional warmth, and it will not be recognized by mainstream moral values. But I would rather believe that men and women who choose to find someone to "fill the bed" have their own helplessness behind them, because emotionally speaking, no one wants to regard themselves as just an animal whose sexual organs need friction to get horny.

After this night, there will always be traces of spring left. I don't believe that you can just be someone else's passerby every time the sun rises. I'm afraid that sadness is inevitable, not to mention it's forced. If we can't stand the physical loneliness, we will have to endure greater spiritual loss. Over time, it will be easy for you to deviate from the normal emotions between men and women, and then it will not just be half of the bed that will be "desolate". It seems like the man is having a lot of fun, but in fact he is sure that the woman can't afford it. If the woman really runs faster than him afterwards, the man will definitely be the one who gets hurt. Sometimes, men don’t cherish women because they are always reluctant to see them sad.

None of us has the right to expand the scope of morality and control everything from heaven to earth, and even to control when other people go to bed. It is a private matter for single men and women who don't want to endure the "empty bed period" of their bodies to find someone to "fill the bed", but the game requires rules, and you'd better choose the person who "fills the bed". Otherwise, if you are too casual and safety and hygiene are not guaranteed, then forget about being truly happy. You will just "bite" the "trees in front of the house" and "grasses beside the yard" and I'm afraid you will end up being deserted by your friends and relatives. If you also get your colleagues or friends into bed with you, the bed will become more and more empty the more you "fill" it, and you may even add a burden to your soul.

Of course, finding ways to fill the emotional "window" is always more reliable than finding someone to fill the "empty bed" temporarily. You must know that if you can't open the window of your heart, no new breath can come in. Even if someone falls in love with your bed, love may still be a long way off.

Guide to a happy window period:

1. The ability to be alone

Women who are single should learn to be alone. Even the best of friends cannot be with you all the time. You have to learn to eat alone, watch movies alone, travel alone... You have to learn to buy yourself flowers, buy yourself a diamond ring, and make yourself happy. You don't necessarily need a lover to make your life fulfilling, you can be happy alone. Never just find someone to fall in love with just because you are lonely.

2. Healthy body

The worst thing about being single is getting sick. The feeling of loneliness with no one to take care of you can completely destroy your optimistic mood.

I spend several hours a week in the gym, swimming, playing ball, and occasionally go to some women's clubs to enjoy aromatherapy and SPA.

, massage...the investment in your body will never be a loss. Only if you are healthy both physically and mentally can you stay happy during this period.

3. Close friends

During the period of being single, women must accumulate more close friends.

They can accompany you shopping, eating, singing and watching plays; they can help you get through the loneliest moments of your single life; they will arrive at the first time to warm you when you are in the most difficult time.

4. A hobby that can be entrusted

Belly dancing, playing killing games...choose a hobby that can keep you active forever. Lonely? Stand aside. Having a hobby not only changes your lifestyle, but also helps you meet like-minded friends. Or, will the next beautiful love be born like this?

5. Cherish your mood

Don’t be unkempt just because you are single! Dress yourself up beautifully anytime and anywhere. Your beauty is not for someone to see, but for your own good mood. Take a slimming treatment; take care of your skin every day; keep yourself in the best condition...