The truth about male and female orgasm

Maybe you feel that the topic of orgasm in the media has become a cliché, and you already know the truth about male and female orgasms. Is this true? We have designed some quizzes to help you distinguish fact from fallacy.

1. Is the best way to bring orgasm to both men and women through direct contact between the vagina and the penis?

no. In the past, most people believed that direct contact and friction between the vagina and the penis was the only way to orgasm. But now all experts agree that orgasm through vaginal stimulation is the most common but least effective way. Most women are very insensitive to direct vaginal stimulation.

In short, orgasm is a whole-body reaction. Some people can orgasm simply through nipple stimulation, some even through imagination. Location or place cannot determine orgasm.

2. Does a man ejaculate when he reaches orgasm?

no. This is a fictional story for adults. Ejaculation and orgasm are two completely different functions in the male body. They just usually happen at the same time. For many men, the number of ejaculations begins to decrease after the age of 40, and some men eventually stop ejaculating at all.

But orgasms still occur, just like when a woman goes through menopause and can no longer ovulate.

3. As men age, does their ability to orgasm decrease?

no. Regardless of age, the ability to orgasm remains the same. The question is whether a man allows himself to enjoy it. If he's worried about ejaculating, he may not feel satisfied. Everything becomes slow and dull with age and constant use.

But orgasms don't stop happening as you age; they just take longer. A young man may jog with great energy, but as he ages he will find greater pleasure in strolling. As both men and women age, the sensation of orgasm may not be as intense as it once was, but that doesn't mean it's any less satisfying.

4. Is a woman who cannot reach orgasm sexually indifferent?

no. Women may think that if they don't orgasm, they must be "sexually apathetic," an outdated term for an inability to enjoy sex. If a woman uses lubrication during intercourse, sexual desire is aroused; orgasm is not a key component of the intercourse process.

In short, the psychological factor pointed out by experts is that the feeling of pleasure is the most important during sexual intercourse. Although these may seem like basic questions, the phenomenon of orgasm has been extensively studied. Researchers have found that men and women have many different kinds of orgasms, and there is no wrong or right way to orgasm. The degree of emotional fatigue or amount of energy, the timing and method of foreplay, the level of mutual trust and shared life experiences can all affect how an orgasm feels.

Men's orgasm:

In men, orgasm is almost entirely dependent on penile stimulation. It always occurs simultaneously with ejaculation. When ejaculation occurs, the series of four or five contractions will give him an intense, perfect, pleasurable sensation.

Some men have a strong physiological response to orgasm, which occurs with loud shouting and vigorous body movements. Others have quieter orgasms. But the intensity of most men's orgasms probably falls somewhere between these two extreme responses.

For many men, the main source of orgasmic pleasure is powerful ejaculation. Other men continue to experience the intense sensations of orgasm long after they ejaculate. Other men experience orgasms in a similar pattern to women, but with an intensity several times greater, a series of shorter, less intense orgasms, culminating in ejaculation.

Women's orgasm:

Studies have found that women have at least two types of orgasms. The first originates from the clitoris, and the second begins from the clitoris and then extends down to the vagina. The combined action of the clitoris and vagina produces an orgasm that is much more intense than one involving only the clitoris.

This orgasm is produced by stimulation of the lining of the front of the vagina, accompanied by contractions of the uterus, vagina, and pelvic organs, and as Jane C, a local Boston reporter, reports, "It was an incredible, completely unexpected experience."

5. Is it possible for me to have multiple orgasms?

If you're a woman, it's entirely possible. If you are a man under 30, probably. If you are a man over 30, this is a possibility. After experiencing orgasm in adulthood, men will go through a period of difficulty controlling themselves and having difficulty getting an erection.

Men under 30 can ejaculate frequently after a short rest. Older men need longer intervals before their penis can become erect again. However, with practice and self-control, most men can prolong the time it takes to orgasm, enjoying several mini-climaxes before climaxing. A man who experiences multiple orgasms during one intercourse will only ejaculate once.

Many women can experience multiple orgasms during a single intercourse. They can remain in a state of peak sexual arousal until they reach the final orgasm stage. They can reach orgasm quickly and multiple times in succession.

Most researchers agree that there is no correct way to have sex. Do whatever works, feels good, and makes the other person feel loved and trusted. This approach is always correct.