Revealed! Men are most afraid of this kind of sex

When in love, women talk less and men talk more, so love is very wonderful; after marriage, women talk more and men talk less. A common mistake women make is to only say what they want to say, regardless of whether the man wants to hear it or not. Harsh words can hurt others and cause disaster. Marriage is a business. You must not just use your mouth without using your brain.

Most afraid of "conditional" intimacy

With whispering in my ears and being gentle on my pillow, when my passion was fully aroused, she suddenly stopped being intimate and said in a flattering manner, "Honey, I've seen a diamond ring." The mood that had just been aroused instantly disappeared.

Comment: Men understand that women are threatening them, and if they don’t agree, the intimacy will be abandoned halfway. It only happens once or twice, and a man may not take it to heart. If this happens all the time, men will inevitably feel that this is a transaction, no different from hiring a prostitute. Over time, men will lose the initiative to be intimate, resulting in a loss of harmony in their sex life.

The most annoying thing is to always bring up the issue of "love or not"

The sentence I hate the most from her is: "You don't love me anymore! Now, you don't care about my feelings at all!" After being married for so many years, how can she still need me to coax her all the time like when we were in love? She is too delicate!

Comment: Men are like peacocks. When they are in love, they will spread their tails in different ways to win the heart of a woman; when they get married, they will put away their tails in a successful manner. Be it love or passion, no matter how beautiful these things are, they can never replace jobs, money and dignity. Therefore, most men in the world have the awareness of working hard to support the family, but lack the patience to continue to make women happy.

The biggest fear is being called incompetent

I don't know what happened to her, but when she got home, she said I was too honest and didn't know how to make money. Her colleagues made so much money and bought their second houses, but I was still on a low salary, I wouldn't starve to death, and I wouldn't get fat. But wasn't it because I was honest that she liked me?

Comment: If you put too much pressure on a man, he will feel very inferior. Put yourself in his shoes. Would he think that his neighbor’s wife is pretty or his classmate’s wife is well-behaved? Don’t forget that marriage is still a study of interpersonal relationships. You should also maintain the principle of “a kind word warms you through the winter” when interacting with your husband.

The most feared thing is "regret"

Every time she got angry, she would curse and curse to her heart's content, but she would always add a concluding sentence: "If you hadn't been so persistent, I wouldn't have married you!"

Comment: Women often say these words to their husbands as if reminiscing about the good old days. The implication is, don't think you've tied me down by marrying you, I can go solo at any time. The original intention is to warn the husband and make him obey her, but women don't realize that saying these things is outsmarting themselves and gives their husbands the impression that the marriage has a shaky foundation.

I am most afraid of being scolded unreasonably when I am tired

My wife can't stand me being idle. She says, "You don't know how to stand or sit properly. Can't you help take out the trash?" Which makes me lose all desire to be gentle with her.

Comment: The implication of this sentence is to criticize one's husband for being too lazy. To be honest, men work hard at work, but when they return home they are often exhausted and just want to lie on the sofa and relax themselves. If you want to change your husband, how can criticism or questioning have any good effect? ​​Only a gentle touch can make a man happy.

Men also love sugar-coated bullets

Women desire sweet words from men but are reluctant to praise them. From now on, satisfy his "vanity" and maintain his image as a man.

Praise, praise a lot.

"My dear, you are so considerate!" "No problem, you are so popular!" "A man like you who has a strong sense of family is the most reliable."

Men will like all the compliments, but the prerequisite is that he must not hear any falsehood in the compliments.

It is better to do than to say.

Sometimes, no words are needed, a sincere, intoxicating and loving look is enough.