Is it better to have sex with the lights on or off?

In the traditional Chinese concept, sexual intercourse between husband and wife is something that should not be seen in public. It seems that some people can only indulge in sex without scruples in the dark. In some Western sexual guidance, "sex with the lights on" is often considered a must-have sexual technique. In life, some couples often disagree about whether to turn on or off the lights during sex. In fact, what we should understand most is the function of "turning on the light" and "turning off the light".

Several benefits of sex with the lights on

A harmonious sex life requires close cooperation between couples during sex, so they need to make full use of hearing, vision and touch to stimulate each other's sexual excitement. Among them, visual stimulation is particularly important for male sexual desire. Women's exposed sexual organs can quickly stimulate male sexual desire and make the erection stronger. In addition, some sexual needs during sex need to be told to the other person through gestures, and sexual reactions and feelings also need to be conveyed and expressed through facial expressions, which are difficult to express if the lights are turned off. From the perspective of sexual health, having sex with the lights on can help people see some abnormal conditions of the genitals, such as bleeding, redness and swelling, and eliminate health risks in time.

Sex with the lights off has its advantages

First, it allows people to fully utilize their sense of touch and give more caresses and kisses; second, after turning off the lights indoors, surrounding interference is reduced, creating a quiet sexual environment, making both parties feel more secure and mysterious when spending a good night together. Third, some women are shy about sex, and turning off the lights can help overcome psychological barriers.

To sum up, turning on the lights and turning off the lights during sex each have their own advantages. Couples should be flexible in handling the situation and negotiate a solution based on mutual understanding and consideration. Do not refuse sex due to "sexual confrontation" caused by different opinions.

My suggestion is that couples can install a table lamp with adjustable brightness in the bedroom, and then adjust the light to a softer level according to the needs of both parties. This can create a hazy atmosphere and make the naked body look more seductive.