Marriage is not a cage. How can a woman let her man go?

As the saying goes, "Marriage is the grave of love, and love without marriage has no burial place", love and marriage have always been a common topic between couples. When moving from love to marriage, men are trapped in the "cage" of the family, and what they really desire is the unfettered forest and grassland. So, how can we restore men's freedom? And how can women "let men go"?

1. Private Space

Many newly married men will complain to their friends: There are no more old days! "Old days" meant having free time and doing whatever you want. But once married, a man feels like he has become a "yo-yo" in his wife's hands: if he runs a little far away, he will be pulled back by the string in his wife's hand.

2. Speak your mind

"Why can't I just say it directly?" Many men have made this complaint. Women like to express their ideas in a roundabout way, and no matter how smart a man is, he can't keep up with a woman's thinking. Especially after a conflict occurs, women adopt an "ignoring" attitude - not talking, not making phone calls, not eating, not sleeping in the same room, etc., which is "cold violence". In fact, men want to use simple methods to solve problems between two people.

3. Dynamic relaxation

Apart from sleeping and necessary work, men always seem to like to move - there is no doubt that they are keen on playing ball, climbing and other outdoor sports. Even at home, they need music to accompany them. If you want a man to stay quiet, he will feel bored and uncomfortable.

4. Be informal

When you get home, you take off your shoes and just throw them away instead of putting them in the shoe cabinet; you sleep in late in the morning and don’t make the quilt; you wash the dishes after all the dishes are used up; there are many things like this. Men are most afraid of being entangled in the details of life. So women's rigid rules will only make men nervous.

5. Unwilling to manage finances

If men spend as much as they earn when they are single, don't expect them to change after they get married. They think personal finance is a hassle and would rather spend their time on a hobby. So men hand over the financial power of the family to women because they are too lazy to take care of it.