How to train a man to be his girlfriend? Which girlfriend is best?

Behind every successful man there is a woman who silently supports him. A good man has the shadow of a smart woman. Everyone wants to meet a good man and train a man of your own. Are you tempted?

It is a long process for a male to grow from a boy to a man and then to a man. People's concepts and ways of dealing with relationships are influenced not only by their family background and upbringing, but also by their relationship experiences. If you have truly loved, the mark that a relationship leaves on you will most likely be unforgettable. After separating from a woman, he will inevitably be influenced by her. Gradually, the influence of several relationships changed the way he treats and demands of relationships. As he grows older, the him who finally gets married may be very different from the him at the beginning. In this process, which stage of men is best to start with?

Most gentle and considerate men are trained by women. When you are in your first love, you often don’t know how to cherish each other; after experiencing some emotions, a man will cherish you more, because his ex-girlfriend taught him a lot. So, when we have a good man, we should know that what we enjoy is the result of the previous girl. So, which girlfriend is the happiest for a man?

First love?

First love is beautiful and pure, but pure love cannot replace everything. He knew nothing. When he was pursuing you, he wrote several love letters and called you downstairs of your dormitory. He considered for two days before holding your hand for the first time. His face turned red when he said he loved you for the first time. When he kissed you for the first time, he was afraid of offending you and asked you if you agreed first. This is first love. He has no knowledge of relationships, and even less understanding of women. He doesn’t know what you want. If you ask him who his favorite person is, he won't lie and say it's his mother. You asked him whether he would marry you in the future, he was stunned for a moment and said he had never thought about this question.

The first relationship is undoubtedly immature. This is because he doesn't have too many thoughts about relationships and doesn't have too many demands. Basically, no matter what you are like, he can accept it and is willing to pamper you, coax you, and love you unconditionally. But most first loves also end in failure because they do not take into account the feasibility of the actual situation.

In terms of the depth of the mark, the first relationship left the deepest mark and had the greatest impact. Many years later, when he has children of his own, he can still recall the sunny afternoons when you and I played carefree under the big tree.

Second girlfriend?

He sends you flowers and treats your friends to dinner. He said “I love you” and then picked you up and spun you around. The moment you said yes to him, he kissed you. This is how men behave in their second relationship. He said girlfriends should wash their boyfriends' clothes and bring them water to wipe their sweat when they are playing ball. You asked him who he loved the most, he thought about it and said, it's you. You asked, will we have a future? He said, would you like to go to my hometown? Occasionally, he would think of his first love, and he said, I was too young at that time and didn’t understand anything.

A man who has experienced a relationship already has his own understanding of women's preferences. He already has a vague concept of love, women, and marriage. Consciously or unintentionally, he is pursuing and adjusting his own views on love. But a man in his second relationship, although he knows what he wants, he doesn't want to tie himself down so quickly.

Third girlfriend?

He said, although I have nothing, I have a heart that loves you. Believe me, we will be very happy. So you rent a house in a strange city and live together in a small room with a simple bathroom and kitchen. You wake up earlier than him every morning, occasionally make breakfast for him, and go to work separately. In the evening, you buy some groceries on your way back and cook them for him. He occasionally washes the dishes and mops the floor. We lived frugally together to pay off the credit card debt from school, and got married when we had saved enough money. You went back to his hometown with him, and he said that his father didn’t think you were as pretty as his ex-girlfriend.

Men at this stage have shed their youthfulness and are moving from being men to becoming men. When it comes to women, in addition to paying attention to appearance and figure, he will also pay attention to whether you can cook, take care of yourself, and be a good mother. He begins to consider the feasibility of marrying you and whether the two of you are suitable to live together.

After two relationships, a man has plans to start a family, and he will take the initiative to take you home to meet his parents. He will save money for you and promise to give you happiness. The man in his third relationship may not be financially well off, but he will work hard for your small family. Therefore, a man who has been through two relationships is basically a good marriage partner.

Fourth girlfriend?

He said, I think we'll get along. That night he sent you home and stayed overnight. He is very caring and always understands what women need. He gave you a surprise before you even asked. He bought the house and put your name on it. When his mother saw you, she said, "Girl, you are not young anymore, get married!" You felt very happy and accepted his diamond ring. One day, you looked through his computer and saw a letter he wrote to his ex-girlfriend, telling him your story, and then he said: These are what I most want to do for you, but I didn’t understand and didn’t have the conditions before.

After three relationships, a man has a certain financial ability and can provide you with what you need in life. However, men at this stage may no longer focus on feelings after experiencing several relationships, and just choose a marriage partner, so you should be wary of whether a man is getting married just for the sake of getting married.

If you can meet this man at this stage, then you are undoubtedly lucky. Both economically and psychologically, he is a mature man. You can enjoy the results of all the hardships he has experienced before. Those results have been brewed into mellow wine. All you have to do is to taste it slowly and drink this glass of wine.

If you can meet this man at this stage, it will undoubtedly be a great challenge for yourself. Precisely because he has everything he needs, and because he already has a clear plan for women, marriage, and the future, as long as you show the slightest bit of unsuitability, he will deduct one point from you, and then another point. If the score is below 60, you will be eliminated. You need to be his friend, with whom you can share everything with openly; you also need to be his subordinate, with whom you admire and respect; and you also need to be his lover, with whom you have charming qualities that make him unable to leave.

Every stage of a man has his own unique flavor, just like wine from different years. Which vintage do you like? Which vintage can you drink?