Will women have a higher success rate if they take the initiative to confess?

The success rate of female confession is as high as 97%

Every May 20th, the screen is flooded with confessions. Recently, a dating website conducted a sample survey on the theme of "Refusing Confessions" among its more than 80 million members nationwide. The survey showed that nearly 90% of men welcome women to take the initiative to confess their love, while "You are a good person" has become the most popular phrase for refusing confessions, and nearly 70% of women do not want to be a "mistress." More than 60% of men cannot tolerate women lying about their relationship history, while nearly 50% of women cannot tolerate men lying about their assets.

Experts say that when facing someone you like, you must seize the opportunity to express your feelings. However, expressing your feelings is a technical job and the way you do it is very important.

The recent sensation of "a college girl confessing her love to a boy in a wedding dress" made many people sigh at the greatness of love, but the fact is that high-profile declarations of love are actually the most disgusting way of confession for men. A sincere and affectionate confession is far more effective than a high-profile declaration of love that makes a sensation in the whole city. More than 30% of single women are most disgusted by hesitant and indirect ways of expressing their feelings. It seems that the overbearing CEO-style confession is the right way to go.

Nearly 90% of men like women to confess their love

In the survey, 86.21% of men said that if they like a woman, they are willing to accept her confession, and 11.64% of men said that they would not refuse even if they don't like her. The success rate of women's active confession is as high as 97.85%! On the contrary, the success rate of men's confession is only 58%. It's true that it's easy for women to chase men!

However, a man accepting a woman’s active confession does not necessarily mean that she likes him, it may also be because he is touched. 13.37% of men will accept a confession because they are touched, and some will accept a woman's embrace because they are lonely and empty. Although 60% of women will accept a confession because they like the other person, 22.09% and 12.97% of women will accept it only because the other person is good and treats them well. Therefore, you need to be cautious when expressing your feelings, because even if the other party agrees, they may not be sincere.

What is the most frequently used phrase to reject a love confession? Survey data shows that more than 60% of single men and women will use "you are a good person" to reject a love confession. "You are a good person, but we are not suitable." "You are really nice, let's just be friends." The omnipotent "good guy" has been framed countless times, and those who were given the good guy card were speechless and choked with tears.

Relevant experts said that most people choose not to refuse directly in order to give the other party face and to leave room for both parties. You cannot force someone you don’t love, and you should not cling to the other person after being given the nice guy card. Quietly waiting for an opportunity or leaving gracefully is a dignified attitude.

For most people, the ex is always a scar that cannot be avoided, and it will hurt if touched. Many TV dramas have perfect endings with old love rekindled, but such beautiful scenes are rare in real life. In this survey, in response to the question "Would you accept your ex's confession of love and reconciliation?", 62.39% of men and 76.15% of women chose "A good horse never turns back" and would not consider it at all. Men are more nostalgic than women, and 37.61% of men would consider getting back together. Experts advise all single men and women to just say one thing when facing their ex: don’t be cheap and don’t meet them. Starting a new relationship is the best way to heal a broken heart.

70% of women refuse to be mistresses

It is said that a woman in love has an IQ of zero, but surveys show that men in love are not much smarter either. There are always endless stories about people being humiliated for love. Would you be a "cheap" customer in love? 70% of women said they are willing to make sacrifices for their loved ones, but men adhere to the principle of "cheapness is healthier", and more than 80% of men are willing to be cheap for love and give up everything.

Although people in love always have some "despicable" tendencies, there must be a bottom line on many issues of principle. For example, you must never be a mistress, who is hated by everyone. The survey shows that 68.9% of single women will choose to leave quietly and give up confessing their love when faced with a male idol who is already in a relationship. At the same time, nearly half of the bachelors said they would not be a "male mistress". It seems that being blinded by love does not mean ignoring morality, and the three views of single men and women are still quite correct.

Lies are often a powerful weapon to destroy love. For many people who cannot tolerate even a grain of sand in their eyes, lying is absolutely unforgivable. Statistics show that the lie that men cannot tolerate the most is the deception in their partner’s love history, with 63.46% of men saying they might break up because of it. As for women, nearly 50% of them cannot tolerate their partners’ deception about their property, such as pretending to be tall, rich and handsome, or a second-generation rich man.