What are the three things men care about most when women refuse to do?

When young boys and girls fall in love and get married, as long as the girl can show her kind nature and as long as the demands are not excessive or beyond the bottom line of principles, the boy will usually be more tolerant and accommodating to the girl. However, most boys are particularly disgusted with unreasonable women, especially when it comes to non-principle issues. Men usually care about their wives' performance in three aspects.

1. Being indifferent to the boy’s parents.

After getting married, many women do not like to live with their parents-in-law. It is best to have their own world for two people. As long as the financial conditions permit, most parents-in-law will meet the children's requirements. A smart daughter-in-law should often visit her parents-in-law to ask about their well-being, or often let the children go to their grandparents to accompany them. She should avoid showing that she is closer to her own parents than to her parents-in-law. Although there is nothing wrong with this, it will make her parents-in-law feel very uncomfortable. If the ignorant daughter-in-law scolds her parents-in-law every now and then, or acts indifferent to them, it will definitely make her husband very angry, and sometimes the consequences are very serious.

After getting married, men hope that their wives can love their parents-in-law as much as they love their own parents. What men want to see is that their wives can treat both sets of parents equally. Favoring one over the other or ignoring one set of parents is something men cannot accept, and it also shows whether a woman's heart is truly kind.

2. Habitually confronting parents-in-law.

Some daughters-in-law are accustomed to arguing with their mothers at home, or are accustomed to quarreling with their mothers. However, after getting married and having their own family, this habit developed over the years is also brought to the mother-in-law's home. Although you regard your mother-in-law as your own mother from the bottom of your heart, and are accustomed to arguing with her mother-in-law like your mother, your mother-in-law's ideas will definitely not be as magnanimous as your mother. A mother-in-law is a mother-in-law, and she will regard your direct confrontation as disrespect for the elderly and a manifestation of lack of courtesy and education. If you complain in front of her son, your husband, it will definitely cause strong dissatisfaction from your husband.

All men have a strong desire to be filial sons after getting married. While they are busy with their careers and have no time to take care of their parents, they naturally hope that their wives can fulfill their filial duties on their behalf and help them to be filial to their parents. Moreover, men like to see family members living in harmony. Although they do not expect their wives to obey their parents-in-law in everything, at least they should not always argue with them over trivial matters.

3. Let your husband compare who he loves.

What men hate most is that women ask them stupid questions to test who they love more. Therefore, men are very disgusted by women asking stupid questions like "If your mother and I fall into the river at the same time, who will you save first?" What would you think if you consider that you only have one mother and you should save your mother first? To be honest, if you and your child fell into the river at the same time, who would you like your husband to save first? Should I save my wife first or my child? Although maternal love can be so great as to sacrifice oneself for others, if a wife uses this kind of question to test whether her husband is loyal to her and treats her as the only one, then the answer you get is often not the one you want.

No matter how much a man loves his wife in his heart, that love can never surpass his love for his mother. Although the two kinds of love are different, a man can clearly distinguish which is more important in his heart. Therefore, men don't like women to ask them to answer this painful multiple-choice question.

After getting married, a man loves his wife and his parents. Therefore, a smart wife should act coquettishly at the right time and in the right place, and never do stupid things that will disgust her husband.