Which contraceptive method is the best and how to choose it?

Sexual life is one of the ways for modern men and women to be intimate. Of course, for modern men and women, if they do not take any contraceptive measures during sexual life, it may lead to pregnancy, and accidental pregnancy is the most harmful to women. Therefore, while we enjoy sexual life, we naturally have to understand what contraceptive method is best, and then use contraception according to our own situation.

We all know that unwanted pregnancy can cause great harm to women. Therefore, for female friends, in addition to understanding which contraceptive method is the best, it should be said that choosing a contraceptive method that suits their situation is the best.

1. Oral contraceptives are one of the most comfortable contraceptive methods. Take one tablet of short-acting contraceptive (such as Marvelon) daily, or take it continuously for 22 days from the end of menstruation. It can regulate menstruation and help with symptoms such as premenstrual abdominal pain and irritability. Many women unexpectedly find that their skin becomes smoother after getting used to taking short-acting contraceptives. To solve the problem of missed doses of short-acting oral contraceptives, there is a very simple method that can be used as a reference: make a monthly calendar on the computer, cut and paste it on the body of the medicine bottle, make a corresponding mark for each tablet taken, and couples can remind each other to prevent forgetting. The new generation of short-acting contraceptives have effectively changed the side effects of the old generation of contraceptives, such as weight gain, acne, and increased hair, through improved ingredients, and have no effect on the development of the fetus. In other words, as long as you are prepared physically and mentally and are ready to have a baby, you can become pregnant immediately after stopping the medication.

Friendly reminder: Of course, one misunderstanding about oral contraceptives that needs to be clarified is that many young girls find it troublesome to take medicine every day, so they simply don’t do any “preparation” work in advance. It’s only after they have sex that they rush out to buy emergency contraceptives and take them. Gynecologists even call these young girls the "Yuting tribe." In fact, this practice exaggerates the "magic effect" of emergency contraception. Almost all emergency contraceptive pills work by inhibiting ovulation and endometrium. Therefore, taking them continuously and multiple times in the same menstrual cycle will increase the chance of menstrual disorders and the failure rate.

2. The rhythm method is also one of the most comfortable contraceptive methods and is the most popular among men because, while getting used to various "strict prevention" contraceptive measures, they can enjoy a kind of pleasure that can only be found in the Garden of Eden. However, while many women are also intoxicated by the pleasure of "barrier-free contact", they are always worried about its safety, especially those who have "won the lottery" more than twice a year. They will gradually become afraid of this method, and their nervous mentality will not be relaxed until the next time the "old friend" shows up as scheduled.

Friendly reminder: Many women have a stable living and working environment, a partner who lives with them day and night, and a menstrual cycle of 28 or 30 days each month. Why can't they enjoy safe period contraception during the "foolproof" time period? If you are still worried, the contraceptive process of ejaculation outside the body can increase the success rate of contraception to a level close to that of male condoms.

3. Men are not opposed to ejaculation outside the body .

Because before reaching the climax like surfing, there is an "emergency stop" action which is very exciting. Many men believe that this implies their ability to control themselves, and is a manifestation of decisiveness and control.

For women, male condoms are the second most comfortable contraceptive method after oral contraceptives and rhythmic contraception. Although your male partner may complain loudly about the "trouble" and "scratching an itch", disposable condoms have a contraceptive effectiveness of up to 99.6%, and the "discomfort" is only a slight "spicy feeling" when the plastic product rubs against the vagina. I believe that men’s physical feelings are the same. Their discomfort is 100% psychological.

In the most open university, a small game in the physiology class lecture is the "condom blowing" competition. The purpose of this game is to dispel the mysterious impression of condoms and let male and female students understand the various benefits of using condoms: safe contraception, prolonged ejaculation time, and prevention of sexually transmitted diseases and AIDS.

Friendly reminder: In fact, in the process of contraception, this custom that focuses on men's feelings should be changed. Contraception must focus on women because it is they who bear the consequences of sex unilaterally. Wives can find an opportunity to talk to their husbands and try to reach an agreement on the use of condoms for contraception. Of course, when talking and doing it, don't be "righteous" and don't let the other person think that he is fulfilling his obligations and making unilateral sacrifices. Instead, emphasize the fun of "wearing a condom." Condoms in various colorful fruit colors, ultra-thin and convex condoms can definitely bring a fantasy touch to the boudoir. The key is how you induce him and complete this lively foreplay with him.

4. Vasectomy for contraception . Of course, the vasectomy operation is uncomfortable, and there will be local pain and redness and swelling, but this "post-operative sequelae" will disappear after two or three days. At this time, a sense of relief of "once and for all" will allow both parties to enjoy a "second spring" that was impossible when they were young. Every sexual experience from now on will become "burden-free" and extremely comfortable. In Japan, sterilization is considered a way to liberate married housewives and makes them much more sexually satisfied than before sterilization. "No longer need to suffer the pain of artificial abortion, from now on you can enjoy the joy of 'pure sex'."

If both parties agree to become a DINK couple, sterilization is the best contraceptive method. Vasectomy will not affect the level of sex hormones in the body. It only blocks the channel where sperm and egg meet. Therefore, there is no need to worry that it will eliminate a person's secondary sexual characteristics or cause the person who has had a vasectomy to enter menopause early.

Friendly reminder: Relatively speaking, tubal ligation is more difficult than vasectomy because the female sexual organs are deep inside the body and this operation is more painful. If you want your husband to have the operation, both parties should communicate fully and the wife should also be considerate of his temporary emotional fluctuations. After all, after the operation, he will feel that he is a little "special" and he will also be willing to sacrifice for the other party. In addition, women who are particularly sensitive and neurotic should not adopt this contraceptive method because they will inexplicably worry about the health and safety of their only child and think that sterilization is "cutting off the road to retreat." If you have such concerns, you should adopt other contraceptive methods.

5. Intrauterine contraceptive device , a rather uncomfortable method of contraception. The scale of the operation to insert the device is almost the same as that of an artificial abortion. A cervical dilator must also be used. The whole waist will feel sore, swollen, and painful. The contraceptive effectiveness after insertion varies from person to person and also depends on the location and technique of insertion by the doctor. A small number of women will have an immune response to the inserted "metal ring", which manifests as heavy menstrual flow, longer menstrual periods, and increased abdominal pain during menstruation. The effectiveness period of ordinary intrauterine contraceptive devices is 5-8 years. It is also very painful to remove it, and a cervical dilator must be used. When the "metal ring" adheres to the uterine wall, it can also cause pain and bleeding.

Different contraceptive methods have their own advantages and disadvantages, so when it comes to the question of which contraceptive method is the best, naturally the best is the contraceptive method that suits you. And for female friends, for the sake of their own health, they still have to choose a safe and reliable contraceptive method to prevent accidental pregnancy.