Few women know about the major changes in a man's life

The potential for sexual pleasure seems to begin at birth and will not end until life ends. Age greatly affects people's sexual behavior. The degree and quality of sexual response vary greatly at different age stages. The impact of age on people's sexual function involves the interaction between human physical and psychological factors. However, at the same age, different individuals still have great differences in their sexual responses to the same sexual stimulation.

Baby boys are born with erections, and as soon as their hand coordination allows, they become interested in playing with their genitals. Infant masturbation is a normal stage of development. Parents' attitude toward this may be an important determinant of boys' future sexual attitudes. Psychologists believe that boys' decline in sexual interest should occur between the second half of the Oedipus period and the onset of puberty.

During the sexual maturation stage of puberty, boys experience a sudden and dramatic increase in sexual desire due to the continuous production of large amounts of male hormones in the body, which heralds their entry into puberty. During this period, boys' secondary sexual characteristics appear and they become capable of romance. Adolescent boys experience the peak of their sexual response and performance in their lives, around the age of 17 to 18. Young men have strong sexual desire and are in a stage of sexual hunger. Sexual fantasies occur urgently and frequently, and they are also keen to seek opposite-sex partners. A normal young man in his 20s would want to find a girlfriend even when he is busy with studies, sports or other pursuits. He would also achieve orgasm through masturbation or nocturnal emissions. In daily life, people are extremely sensitive to all possible sexual stimuli. For example, a young man may be embarrassed by an erection caused by a bumpy ride in a car. In addition, the orgasm subsides very slowly, and he may still have a certain degree of erection for about half an hour after ejaculation. Their orgasmic responses are intense and their ejaculations are powerful.

In your 30s, the urgency of sexual desire decreases. Men at this age are still very interested in pursuing sex, but they orgasm less frequently. Most men of this age are satisfied with relatively perfect and harmonious sex. Generally speaking, men in their 30s will not overly indulge in sexual imagination and fantasies without sexual stimulation. But they still respond quickly to sexual stimulation and actively seek sexual opportunities. From a physical point of view, their erections are fast and their erections are slow to subside. When men approach 40 years old, except perhaps under abnormal stimulation conditions, they are generally unable to ejaculate quickly and continuously.

After the age of 40, men's sexual pleasure begins to change significantly. No wonder some people say that 40 is the old age in adolescence, and 50 is the youth in old age. Many men feel anxious when approaching their 40th birthday, thinking that they have reached the embarrassing end of their youth and become depressed. At this time, the characteristics of a man's sexual response change from the intense sensations concentrated in his sexual organs when he was young to diffuse and generalized sensations extending throughout the body. Their pursuit of orgasm gradually becomes less urgent.

After age 50, the two most sensitive indicators of men's aging are:

①The frequency of orgasm decreases.

② The time interval between two ejaculations is prolonged.

Men between the ages of 50 and 60 are generally satisfied with one or possibly two orgasms per week, and many normal men in their 50s or late 60s are unable to regain an erection within 12 to 24 hours after ejaculation. After age 50, erections and ejaculation in particular require longer and more intense stimulation, which means that during sex, he can no longer get an erection just by touching his partner's body or simply kissing her. In addition, some older men often experience a "paradoxical refractory period", which means that if an older man loses his erection during a prolonged sexual activity, he will have to wait 12 to 24 hours before he can have an erection again, thus making the sexual activity aborted, just as if he had already experienced an actual orgasm. Some people call this a secondary refractory period. In addition, at the age of 60 or older, the force of the ejaculation is greatly weakened, even to the point of a slow gush. At this age, the orgasm subsides very quickly, and the penis becomes completely flaccid soon after ejaculation.

The decreased libido in older men is also reflected in a decrease in sexual interest, imagination and sexual fantasies. On the other hand, men in their 50s may be so busy with their careers for weeks that they don't think about sex or even have an erection. But an older man remains highly responsive to sexual stimulation, especially if he remains sexually active. Improved sexual techniques can regulate these changes, including increasing the intensity and duration of physical stimulation.

The production of male hormones in men around the age of 55 gradually decreases, but this is different from the sudden decline in ovarian function in women. Some men experience depression, irritability, lack of energy, and difficulty with sexual life during this stage of their lives. Therefore, the meaning of male menopause is a collection of psychological and physiological reactions to decreased sexual function. And men of this age will generally experience this change. This physiological change has a variety of psychological effects in addition to the effects on androgen levels, and testosterone supplementation does not always reduce a man's depression or improve his energy. On the contrary, if they are mentally prepared for such changes, they can effectively handle and overcome such crises through various defensive and adaptive activities.

Healthy men who undergo the above changes are able to maintain the ability to enjoy sexual pleasure in their later years. Indeed, freed from the intense need for orgasm and the repression of youth, older men and their partners will often be able to enjoy more satisfying and imaginative lovemaking. For the man who leads a comfortable life, if health is good and the opportunity is available, age will never be an obstacle to sexual pleasure. Even though an 80-year-old man can no longer have the intense, multiple orgasms he had in his youth, he can still experience the distinct sensation of ejaculation, but he is still fully capable of experiencing occasional orgasms and more pleasurable erections, and he is still fully capable of enjoying more physical intimacy. This is sex and men’s life. Sex never stops in a man's life. Even in old age, it will not be completely turned off like a faucet.