Men Want to Know: Why Women Fake Orgasms

A German sexology research institute specially invited 200 pairs of men and women, asked the men to raise the sexual issues they are most concerned about, and then invited the women to answer truthfully!

1. Men: Why do women sometimes fake orgasms?

Woman: Yes, we do that sometimes, and when we were young, we even did it a lot.

Because we believe that only women who are easily sexually excited are more attractive to men and are the partners that men like. Therefore, each of us hopes that we can look very aroused or appear so.

Which woman is willing to admit that they are indifferent and wooden in bed? In addition, we know that men are so passionate and so fragile, and we really can't bear to see them so devoted but can't find the necessary return. That would be so disappointing for them.

Of course, sometimes we just want to get away and want it to be over faster because we don’t really want to have sex at that moment, we just want to satisfy our partner’s needs. For many women, orgasm is not necessarily an inevitable part of a night of fun, but unfortunately, men don't think so.

2. Men: Do women like men to wear condoms when having sex?

Woman: To be honest, we don’t have any special feelings whether men wear condoms during sex.

Maybe men will feel that it is like scratching an itch through a layer of rubber film, but this will not affect women's pleasure, and of course, it will not bring more pleasure. However, sometimes we wonder: Has the condom slipped off or is it torn? This is mainly due to the need for contraception and prevention of sexually transmitted diseases. There is no pleasure in having sex if you risk an unwanted pregnancy or a sexually transmitted disease.

3. Men: Will women get jealous when men masturbate?

Woman: It depends on the relationship between the two people. If the relationship is normal or very good, the woman will not be jealous if the man enjoys himself by masturbating.

We know that masturbation is also a normal sexual behavior, even in the days after marriage. Secondly, after all, there is no other woman to take away his love. Sometimes when we see the look on a man’s face at that moment, we even feel particularly thrilled and excited.

However, although we understand that men have their own ways of entertaining themselves and that their sexual behavior has nothing to do with the relationship between the two people, if our relationship is not very good and we are always not getting along, then seeing or knowing that a man leaves himself aside to masturbate will make us jealous, and even feel inferior and sad.

4. Men: How do women view non-traditional sexual practices?

Woman: Oh, you mean changing up your sexual positions or trying new sexual behaviors!

Yes, men are always not satisfied with the accustomed sexual positions and caressing methods. They always want to try new things to pursue greater stimulation and pleasure. In fact, women today also have the need to pursue freshness and excitement. When we believe that this sexual position is healthy, hygienic, safe, and can make us happier, we will not reject men's good intentions. The key is that we must determine in advance that this new sexual method must be harmless and acceptable, which means that it must not cause any harm to our physical and mental health.

Do men want to try new sexual positions and caressing methods? Then they should respect the wishes of women and obtain their consent, instead of imposing their will on others, making them feel used, insulted or even raped!

5. Man: Do women like having sex under the lights?

Woman: When my lover and I just go to bed and chat in bed, I don’t advocate turning off the lights immediately, because seeing the smile on my lover’s face under the light will make me more happy and excited.

But the next step, without a doubt, is to turn off the lights. In the dark, women have a wider sexual space, and I can better think of many pleasant and exciting things, which will make me more excited. At the same time, when my eyes can no longer see, everything will be given to the body's senses, allowing me to focus more.

Another reason is that at this time, perhaps my partner's and my faces would become ugly because of excitement, and perhaps we would even make some ecstatic moans. In the dark, these will be concealed, so we won't feel embarrassed or shy and can enjoy ourselves more. If there was just a dim and blurry light at this time, I would also feel very comfortable.

6. Men: Are women always passive in sex?

Women: Although people's concepts have changed a lot, in most people's minds, women are still gentle, dignified and gentle, especially in terms of sex, they should be calm, steady and restrained.

Therefore, most women are unwilling to be ostentatious or open in their sexuality. In fact, whether we are active in sex is different from whether we are sexually positive and proactive. Women are by no means always passive when it comes to sex. However, we can only express it in a more implicit way. For example, she prepares your favorite dinner, and is extra attentive and intimate after dinner; she washes up early and prepares for bed; she puts on a very sexy lingerie before going to bed, and shows you intentionally or unintentionally...

What else do you expect a woman to do?

7. Men: Do women always like men who are strong and brave in sex?

Woman: That’s what men think.

What we prefer more are men who are gentle, kind, proactive, successful in their careers and responsible. We always feel that being with such men makes us feel more secure and dependent, and we even feel that such men are truly sexy. The kind of mighty and brave warriors that men talk about have also been particularly loved by women, but that was a thing of the medieval knight era, or the stories in martial arts films. Such men are idols that men pursue and emulate, but they are not what women love today.