Men have different attitudes towards sexual desire at different ages

20-29 years old

Young, competitive and full of vigor, boys in their 20s are always trying to prove that they are men, but they are inevitably immature and impetuous. Men in their 20s haven’t had enough fun yet. They are more accepting of short-lived love and are unwilling to learn to stay together forever too early. Therefore, they are more willing to experience the most fashionable relationships between the sexes, such as one-night stands and online romance.

Problem 1: Obsession with Lust

Shot: Although he knows that being addicted to pornographic websites is harmful to his body and mind, Ajian just can't control himself. Every day after work, he comes home, locks the door, and browses pornographic websites.

Expert advice: Be careful of getting sick if you are overly addicted to pornographic websites! This is not sensational. According to a clinical statistics of men's department, long-term addiction may lead to prostatitis, epididymitis and azoospermia! To "quit addiction", we must first remind ourselves consciously to resist unhealthy websites and pay attention to focusing our energy on study, work and other colorful activities. If the situation is more serious, negative emotions may have caused biochemical changes in the brain and cannot be improved simply by psychological adjustment. In this case, you must seek help from a psychologist for various clinical examinations and targeted treatments.

Problem 2: No Sexual Interest

Scene: Somehow, Miss Ji found it increasingly difficult to devote herself to married life. Every time her husband did a "routine", she felt helpless and disappointed. The romantic passion of the newlyweds and the sweetness of their sex life gradually faded away without her noticing.

Expert advice: A couple’s life will only feel boring and numb if they live in a monotonous state. Bring some fun into your marriage and you will find that life becomes wonderful. Intimate caresses, erotic massages, candlelight dinners, placing fresh flowers in the bedroom, or lighting plant-scented candles, the romantic atmosphere is suitable for both men and women. Trying different kinds of atmosphere can make you happy and improve your sexual desire.

40-49 years old

As the saying goes, "Men reach a certain level at the age of 41," and they may enter menopause after the age of 45. When entering this age group, many men are knocked down by unexpected physical weakness and loss of sexual desire. In order to prove that they are still as good as ever, they sometimes have affairs to reduce their frustration.

Problem 3: Decreased sexual function

Scene: In order to avoid having sex with his wife, Mr. Liu has been coming home late for several days using the excuse of working overtime. Mr. Liu’s 45-year-old wife is nine years younger than him and is only 36 years old this year. As time went by, the wife began to suspect her husband: "Is he sick?" Little did she know that this was Mr. Liu's "pain of a 40-year-old man"!

Expert advice: Men over 40 are most afraid of a decline in sexual ability. So some people take medicine, some people have surgery, but they only treat the symptoms and not the root cause. Richard Sparks, a urologist at Harvard Medical School, believes that only by facing your own problems can you give yourself a chance to heal.

Men in their forties should adjust their work content or life goals, maintain good communication with their wives, and jointly plan a new world for the two of them. Healthy diet and moderate exercise are also very important. Studies show that good relationships and regular exercise can increase endogenous testosterone levels. If the decline in sexual function is caused by diseases such as high blood pressure, diabetes, and prostate disease, active treatment should be sought.

Problem 4: Infidelity

Camera: "I love my family, my children, and I don't hate my wife, but I can't resist temptation. It seems that wild flowers are indeed more fragrant than domestic flowers." Mr. Qin's family of three was an enviable and harmonious family. However, his long-term family life made him lose his sense of novelty. When a woman from the outside world expressed her love for him, he felt that this was a proof of his masculinity and strength.

Expert advice: There may be many reasons for men's infidelity, some of which are due to men's self-esteem issues. Regardless of whether they are successful in their careers, they may regard pursuing women or women's favor as one of the proofs that they still have charm, especially men who play a deputy position at home. Some middle-aged men who are panicked about their "loss of virility" sometimes have affairs to prove that they are still in their prime. As long as it is an affair, there is more or less betrayal of feelings, which will hurt the other party. Therefore, one should not only be loyal to love, but also to marriage. Problems with men's sexual desire during its peak and waning periods.