You shouldn't bully your friend's wife, but why is she always "ridden"?

Some time ago, a female friend told me about her recent experience: she was married, but her married life with her husband was not very happy, and she hadn't kissed for more than two years. She opened a small bar, and the pianist in the bar was a married man. As the two of them got along for a long time, naturally there was some unclear ambiguity between them. That day, she drank a little too much, so she forcibly kissed the man in a trance and tried to take off his pants by force. However, the man tried to persuade her kindly, saying "Don't cheat on your friend's wife." So, nothing happened.

After listening to my friend's experience, I thought a lot. Indeed, men have always had taboos like "don't cheat on your friend's wife", which is like a minefield, and they will not do such things easily. But we also know a saying: Other people’s wives are better. Naturally, these "others" are unlikely to be strangers you meet on the street, but most of them are your acquaintances. So when men look at their friends' wives, they often think they are good from the perspective of figure to personality. It is very common for men to secretly have some wild thoughts in their minds and sometimes use the slogans of sister-in-law, brother-in-law, etc. to make money. Then why, when they are really given the opportunity, most men will still back off when facing their friends' wives? What is the reason that causes men to have bad intentions but are unwilling to cross this line? In fact, it is very simple, because we are adults, we can foresee the consequences of things, and the consequences of such things are often unbearable for most men. You know, for Chinese men, being cuckolded can be regarded as a great shame, the so-called revenge for killing one's father and raping one's wife. And if a friend does such a thing, it is unlikely to gain the forgiveness of his friends (this is often forgiven in foreign countries, it's just because of different national conditions). Moreover, friends are always around, and it is difficult to hide the fact that you have committed adultery with your friend's wife. As the saying goes, a rabbit does not eat the grass near its burrow, but eats the grass at a friend's house. Either you find out and let your friends know, or the consequence of being discovered may lead to fierce revenge from your friends. After all, if your wife is seduced by a stranger, you can hide it, but if your friend plays with your wife, how can a man survive in the future? He may take the most extreme approach to retaliate. At the same time, this kind of thing will never be supported by other friends. Once the matter of cheating on a friend's wife spreads among friends, the person's credibility will definitely drop to zero. So it is easy to have a one-night stand, but if a man still wants to have sex with someone he knows is an AIDS patient, he is probably either crazy or obsessed with sex. Sleeping with a friend's wife may be exciting for a while, but there may be a lot of trouble afterwards. So any man with a little common sense will definitely understand that it is not worth it and will not do it.

Of course there are honest men, and I don't deny their nobility, but understanding the subtle psychology of men also makes us understand that we are only human beings, we may have bad thoughts, but at least we still know how to restrain ourselves. Of course, the kind of men who use their faces as toilet paper and the kind of men who dare to take off their pants in front of a woman are truly garbage in the sex industry and there is no need to talk about them.