Men do this more often than their wives do.

Acting coquettishly is really not just for women. In today's increasingly fierce competition and growing pressure, men also have a fragile side and they also need comfort. If one day, when you are so tired that you want to act coquettishly in front of your wife or girlfriend, do not suppress this impulse, because it is good for your health; the woman should not say that he is not like a man, because you are the most suitable person to satisfy his spiritual needs in this regard.

Men act like a spoiled child more often than their wives

A survey found an interesting phenomenon among 1,400 families from different countries, races, educational backgrounds, age characteristics, and income levels: men act like a spoiled child at home even more often than their wives.

It may sound novel that men also "act like a spoiled child", but this is indeed a drama that happens in real life, but it mostly only happens "backstage". Life is a big stage. In the foreground, the men play their respective social roles; in the background, the performances of the characters are probably difficult for the general audience to see. Most people are accustomed to positioning men based on their front-stage image, while ignoring the backstage image that men originally possess.

In the division of gender roles, women inherently have maternal characteristics, which is one of the reasons why men are more likely to act coquettishly in front of women in private. Another reason is the difference in social roles. Men have always played a strong social image, but they also bear more psychological pressure. Men have been taught since childhood that you are a man, and a man should be strong. In the family, men are often seen as the center of attention, and they are required to use their strong arms to protect their families from wind and rain. However, men are not made of steel or iron. Like women, they have a fragile side by nature and have emotional pain that needs to be soothed. Moreover, men have to play the role of strong men in society and have fewer opportunities to vent than women. So when the man returns home, he exposes his vulnerability to his "psychological mother" in order to get spiritual comfort.

Career is a man's capital for being coquettish

Psychologists believe that, usually, career is just an excuse for men, but this does not mean that men who act like a spoiled child have no career. On the contrary, career is often the capital they rely on to act like a spoiled child. Its forms of expression are monetary capital and image capital. Currency is a universal form of expression, while image is a symbol of status. At the beginning stage of a career, some external monetary symbols are often needed, such as high-end brand-name suits, Rolex gold watches, thick gold bracelets or necklaces. But when capital accumulation enters the substantive stage, they will suddenly realize the vulgarity of this form of expression and feel ashamed of it. Then they will start to dress casually like real big bosses, using loose and comfortable mid-range casual wear to cover up their growing status.

When no one is around, looking back on the past years, they will feel a sense of loss and anxiety, and the fear of approaching death gradually rises into an anxiety that often leads to endocrine disorders. At this time, they will act like children, looking at the woman they love with pleading eyes and acting coquettishly. But some wives think that this is an embarrassment that their husbands cannot face their wives after they have done something wrong, which leads to a deadlock in the relationship between the couple.

Being coquettish is not a man's killer weapon

Only by mastering the various ways your husband acts like a spoiled child can you truly understand his psychological needs. When your husband remains silent in front of you, when he suddenly bursts into tears, when he is extremely painful, when he wants to watch TV close to you... you should understand your husband's inner needs in time.

Experts believe that crying is not a killer move for men who act like spoiled brats. Although this trick is very effective on women, they do not use it easily. But this does not stop them from telling their tearful stories, which of course mean suffering. For a responsible man, he can list many responsibilities when he acts coquettishly, including his family, wife, daughter, parents, country, career, etc. Let women understand the tremendous pressure he bears, so that they will feel compassion and care for them.

In short, in real life, men need a place to vent their emotions while working hard to manage their family and career. At this time, the wife must open her heart and accept her husband's "coquettishness", which can not only improve the relationship between the couple but also effectively help her husband relieve stress.