Open your eyes, are you his true love?

With the development of the economy and society, love can also be divided into formal meals and fast food. Women, do you know whether the man next to you treats you as a snack or a full meal? And do you want to be his full meal or a snack?

With the quickening pace of life, people no longer take diet as seriously as before. Fast food has quickly entered people's lives with its fast characteristics and has been loved by the general public. People's attitude towards relationships is also gradually developing towards food culture, with the original wife being likened to a "main meal" and an affair being likened to a "fast food".

Generally speaking, women want to be the main meal of the man they like, and to be the main meal for a lifetime. But for various reasons, you may become his fast food without realizing it or half-heartedly. If it is fast food, then it is what is commonly known as a mistress. Once this term is borne, it is a stain that can never be washed away in a lifetime. It also deeply hurts one's own feelings.

You hope that the relationship between two people can last forever, but are you sure he thinks so too? Does he do this too? Even if you have progressed to a certain stage now, you can't take it lightly, because men are very good at concealing their inner feelings, making it difficult for you to recognize the hidden meaning behind his behavior. To identify his true intentions, protect yourself from getting hurt, and help you understand his heart more deeply, let's see if your man treats you as fast food.

1. Think carefully, during the time you spent together, did you spend more time in entertainment activities in restaurants and outdoors, or more time chatting and exchanging ideas... or did you spend more time in bed? Does he take the initiative to care about you? He cares about your mood, remembers your preferences, tries hard to make you happy, and shares those unhappy things together. This is love, this is true emotion.

When people eat fast food, they just want it to be quick and they don’t savor the food carefully. But for a full meal, people will spend a lot of time savoring the flavor. If he only regards you as a fast food, why would he spend so much time discussing a topic in depth with you? How would he chat and exchange ideas with you? Because he has never thought about growing old with you, he will not care at all if you have any changes in your thoughts. He chooses you, perhaps just because of your beauty, or just because of the short happy time with you.

So a very obvious difference is that fast food is only about having sex, while he is more concerned about whether you can satisfy him. He will not pay too much attention to your happiness or unhappiness, likes and dislikes. If you really try to identify it, it is easy to see.

2. He is always elusive and seems to have endless things to deal with during the day, so he can only date you at night. When you call him, he always says, "I'm busy, I'll call you when I have time." It seems that he is the only one who asks you out, but you can never make a date with him.

His work, his friends, and his other things all take up his time. In his heart, you will never occupy an important position, lower than work, lower than friends or wife. In his heart, you will only appear when he needs you. Don't fantasize that he will appear on his own initiative when you need him.

I don’t deny that there are men who are workaholics, but most of the time when they use this excuse, it is when abnormal situations occur. Therefore, we must take precautions before it happens. As soon as such signs appear, you should be suspicious.

3. When he is with you, it is always just a world for the two of them. He won't take you out to meet his friends or relatives because he is afraid that others will see you and expose your relationship, which will affect another relationship that he values ​​more.

As long as it is a deep and intimate relationship, you will definitely be integrated into the other person's circle of friends and family and relatives. This is because humans are social animals and always want to be affirmed by those around them. This is also a kind of affirmation of the relationship between each other. Only when it is immoral or he simply doesn't want to be with you will he make all kinds of excuses not to bring you out in public.

What people expect of a world for two is a relationship where two people love and cherish each other after being blessed by the world and made public, rather than a secretive world for two. If he truly loves you and wants you to be his main meal, he will be eager to have you in his life.

4. His true identity seems like a mystery. He won't talk about his family, parents, friends, or past. He will even beat around the bush and change the subject when you accidentally ask him a question, as if he is trying to keep something secret. So you know nothing about his situation. This is because he deliberately concealed it so that he could live a carefree and happy life.

Because he doesn't value you enough and doesn't want you to enter his life, he will lie to you and make himself a mystery. If you ask too quickly, he will get angry and try to divert your attention. Don't try to integrate into his life. When you get to know him better, it's time for you to separate.

5. Check out your name in his cell phone address book. If it is a simple nickname or a nickname that doesn't attract attention, you should know what it means, right? Don't let emotions blind your eyes.

Because the mobile phone is the place where men keep most of their secrets, he would be afraid that his wife would check his phone to see if there are any names of people with whom he has an ambiguous relationship. If he named her with an intimate nickname, it would easily arouse his wife's suspicion, leading to the truth being exposed and ending in divorce.

If he really wants to be with you for a long time, it is normal to use intimate nicknames or corny names like "wife" and "madam".

6. Even if you have had sex, he has not spent a full night with you. Sometimes you really hope to see his face when you open your eyes for the first time in the morning, but unfortunately, there is never such an opportunity.

His time is not yours alone; he has to allocate it to other people, perhaps his wife or children. So his time with you can only be short-lived. Don't expect him to stay with you all night unless he decides to divorce and be with you. He cannot ignore the eyes of outsiders and everything he has.

Even though I spent the night with him, he was often not there. Especially during holidays, when he needs to be with friends and family, he is always busy. This is a very dangerous signal. What are you doing here if you can't protect yourself from the wind and rain?

When you realize that you are just a fast food in his life, or a fast food that he never gives up, he just wants to eat it every day, but he will not give too much for you.

If you find out that the one you love only treats you as fast food, it is inevitable to feel sad, but you have to understand that this is labor pain. You should be glad that you realized it early. This kind of man is not worthy of your wholehearted devotion. Stop and say goodbye to him as soon as possible. Then go and find your true happiness.