10 criteria for beauty recognized by men

In the eyes of men, there are various definitions of a woman's beauty. Some men like beautiful appearance and will be intoxicated by a woman's outward beauty; some men pay more attention to inner kindness and will be impressed by a woman's kind nature; others believe that a woman's beauty cannot be used to make a living and will pay more attention to a woman's self-respect, self-reliance and independence. Anyway, men usually like women with temperament.

1. A woman who knows how to respect herself, love herself and be strong.

If a man loves you, his eyes will shine and he will be radiant with love. If he is always depressed when he is with you, then think about whether there is any conflict between you. If not, then please leave him, he is just perfunctorily treating you out of helplessness. Remember, most men like women who know how to respect themselves, be strong and love themselves. Therefore, only women who love themselves well can find their true love.

2. A kind, gentle and considerate woman.

If you fall in love with a man, please remember to love him gently, don't always make unreasonable demands and don't be too willful. Sometimes men are also very fragile, and more often what he needs is your care. If he occasionally behaves capriciously and acts like a spoiled child, pinch his nose or hug him to coax him. Even if he acts like a spoiled child, you must learn to treat him gently like a mother, making him feel warm in his heart and that you can rely on him. This is his greatest trust in you.

3. A strong woman who does not accept unspoken rules.

Although many men are unfaithful and may have the bad habit of cheating, they will never tolerate a woman betraying them or having any unfaithful behavior. If such a situation occurs, the person who loses the most in the end will definitely be the woman. Because men are emotionally fragile, they need pure and unique love. Therefore, in the eyes of men, the most beautiful woman is the one who can abide by the code of conduct for women, and preferably the one who is familiar with "Three Bonds and Five Constant Virtues" and "The Book of Daughters".

4. A woman who has her own opinions but is never overbearing.

Men don't like the kind of beautiful women who are timid and have no opinions of their own. Similarly, men don't like the kind of beautiful women who are too strong and don't respect the other person's feelings and have the final say in everything. Instead, men like strong women who have their own opinions but don't always show arrogance. In other words, men usually like the kind of little women who are like a little bird, the kind of women that can make a man's male hormones surge and make him feel pity and cherish her.

5. A wise woman does not want to be a pretty vase.

Your beauty is your asset, but it is not to be shown off or even collected as a vase by men. What's more, beauty cannot be used to make a living and will fade with age. Therefore, you must learn to use your beauty to gain a foothold in society, use your wisdom to control your life and realize your life ideals. Women who are treated as vases by men usually do not receive universal respect from society.

6. Don’t be a parasitic independent woman.

It is not a problem for a woman to be beautiful. The problem is that a beautiful woman must remain financially independent. Don't think about using your beauty to rely on others, and don't think about seducing men when you are young and beautiful. Therefore, remember to bring your wallet when you go out, and remember to rush to pay the bill. Don't take it for granted that you can spend a man's money. You should know that using your own money will make you feel most comfortable.

7. A woman who won’t stick to a man all day long.

You can love a man very much, but you should understand that he is not your everything. You should keep a part of yourself, love your work, love your children, and love your parents. Don't let a man take up all your energy. Similarly, a man does not want a woman who loves him to stick to him all day long. You are not his servant, so there is no need to be always available at his beck and call or even obey his every command.

8. Don’t be too passive when it comes to love.

The beautiful woman in a man's mind must be the one who can belong to him. As for the woman who cannot belong to him, he will only take a second look at her no matter how beautiful she is. In other words, if you fall in love with a man, then please don't be too passive and always wait for him to come to you. If you want to be the beautiful woman in his mind, you must seize the opportunity. You must know that if you miss it, you may never have it again.

9. A woman who understands you very well.

Men like to be with beautiful and spiritual women, whether at work or in daily life. If they can meet a girl who can communicate with them on everything and have a tacit understanding to the point of being in sync with each other, she will definitely be the most beautiful in a man's mind. Such a woman will make a man feel very comfortable and warm, and will make a man feel more and more attached to her, making him involuntarily impressed by your cleverness and cherish her even more.

10. A woman who is elegant but not superficial.

Beautiful women are often stereotyped by others as "pretty faces but stupid minds", as if beautiful women do not have very high IQs. In fact, a woman's temperament can be cultivated. You can impress boys by accumulating knowledge, become more elegant by learning good manners, and become an intellectual woman by learning to constantly improve your realm. Then, you can become a beautiful goddess in the eyes of men and a beautiful woman who makes men's hearts beat.

Of course, the ideal woman in a man's mind must be sensible, know how to say sorry, and be able to understand and love herself. Therefore, no matter whether a woman is beautiful in appearance or in heart, she can learn more philosophy. It will make you understand more life principles and let you know that men who like beautiful women are actually constantly looking for women who make them feel comfortable.