The common weakness of men

If both parties can understand these differences and communicate more in their daily interactions, they can achieve harmonious coexistence between husband and wife and make their family life happier and more fulfilling.

Survey data show that divorces due to trivial matters in family life and incompatibility of personalities account for 48% of all divorces. So don’t underestimate the art of getting along between husband and wife. The behavioral differences between men and women can be said to be the root cause of family conflicts. Due to physiological reasons, the brain structure of men and women is slightly different, which leads to differences in personality and behavior.

Situations you often encounter

If you have a sad or happy day and return home earlier than your husband, when he comes home, he sits on the sofa watching TV or reading the newspaper without saying a word. You feel depressed and even complain that your husband is a dull guy. When you confide in him, he becomes a piece of wood. When you tell him stories, he becomes a student. Why is this happening?

Because men and women are born with important differences in language expression, according to a British media report, women speak an average of 6,400-8,000 words a day, while men speak an average of half as many words a day as women, at only 2,000-4,000 words. Therefore, women are more suitable for communication-related jobs than men, such as public relations, salespersons, etc.

After sex, when I wanted to tell my husband about my happiness and worries, he showed a cold expression. In fact, he is not deliberately going against you, he is just not good at expressing himself.

After a tiring day, women hope to relieve stress by talking or confessing, while men just want to rest. Talking is not a rest for him, men are more focused.

Suggestion: When facing such a situation, you can talk to a good friend or wait until your husband has rested and then tell him about your troubles and happiness.

Men are naturally not motivated

When friends, especially relatives, encounter an accident, both men and women are informed at the same time. If you check their heartbeats, you will find that men's heartbeats are much higher than women's. Although he does not cry as bitterly as women and his expression is just cold, the pain in his heart is much higher than that of women. Psychologists have found that men often fear that their lovers will be killed or commit suicide, while women often fear that their lovers will suffer an accident or die of old age. At the same time, the conclusion was drawn: men are more afraid of accidents than women, they do not like real life to be disrupted, while women are more eager for happiness.

Once the family or career enters a good state, men will reveal a strong sense of enclosure. They do not want their territory to be invaded, and they do not want to lose their territory. Young women like to fantasize, and once they enter a good state, they are more motivated than men. After reaching higher positions, women are much more likely to change jobs than men.

Suggestion: When he is feeling down, you should encourage him from the outside and help him break out of the siege. Many men cheat and have extramarital affairs mainly because they cannot get appreciation and help from their wives.

My husband is a good map

If men and women look at a map together, with the map facing north and the destination facing south, men can mark the changed route without turning the map over, while most women need to turn the map to the direction they want to go before they can mark the route.

Men and women have innate differences in spatial discrimination ability. Men are more likely to rotate the map direction and the target direction to be consistent in their minds. Moreover, it is easier for boys to create a three-dimensional sample based on a two-dimensional blueprint. So when they are young, girls are better at Chinese than boys, and boys are better at math than girls. Men are better at finding their way than women.

Suggestion: If you are lost and need help, you can call him and let him act as your navigator. If you have a good attitude and praise him, he will feel a sense of accomplishment.

My husband loves "I will always support you"

Men like adventure. From an early age, boys have a strong curiosity about dangerous things and are eager to try them. Being aggressive and liking to act as a "leader" are both signs that boys love adventure. When a man faces tremendous pressure, he hopes to get relief through adventure or exciting activities.

Many times, he is like a child, afraid of setbacks. Even after growing up, he still needs recognition and encouragement. When facing things, he will become indecisive, and at this time, he needs your encouragement and support more, especially when men are developing their careers.

Suggestion: When he encounters something important and needs to make a decision, you can encourage him, but never ridicule him. At this time, men desperately need a few caring words. "My wife will always support you!" Words like these are always his reassurance. If this sentence is said when you are having sex, the effect will be better and your sex life will be more harmonious.

You can make a "death call" appropriately

You are in a bad mood today, or you are tired after a day of hard work, and when you get home you are exhausted, but he still invites you to go shopping. Whether you go or not, it's bound to end up being unpleasant. You blame him for not noticing your hard work. In fact, it’s not that he doesn’t understand your hard work, but that he simply doesn’t notice it. Men are more likely to overlook details than women. If you encounter such a situation, you might as well be frank and tell him directly what you really think.

Men pay more attention to big things. If he is on a business trip for a week, he may not call you for several days in a row, but when he comes back, he may bring you an expensive gift.

Suggestion: Don’t be too demanding on him on the details, as his contributions are mostly on the big things. If you encounter a situation like he is on a business trip for a few days and doesn't call you, please don't be angry with him. You can call him directly and ask about his life during the business trip.