Eight types of women that make men unable to control themselves

1. A woman who is outgoing and likes to participate in activities with the opposite sex

This kind of women often seem very excited when they are among men, and they seem particularly happy to participate in activities with men. They don't know that some of their words and deeds will cause men's endless fantasies. The reason why men like to let such women participate in their social circles is actually to make more men have wild thoughts. Therefore, most of the women who treat men as buddies will eventually become topics of temptation to others.

2. A woman who is absolutely inferior to your wife in every way

People have always had an illusion or even a misunderstanding that men's temptations all come from beauties as beautiful as flowers and the moon, and from impeccable women. In fact, whether a man can resist temptation has nothing to do with whether the other person is a beauty. For example, why is Diana inferior to Camilla? Charles could not resist Camilla's temptation and fell at her feet. Therefore, never arouse a man's natural curiosity about women. After all, men are often tempted by women who are far inferior to their wives in terms of appearance, knowledge, temperament, charm, social status and personal attractiveness.

3. Your first girlfriend or ex-girlfriend

For most men, the ex-girlfriend or first love is indeed an eternal pain in their hearts. Faced with the visit of the ex-girlfriend, many men will not remain indifferent, especially when the current girlfriend is not around. This is indeed a temptation that is difficult to resist. In addition, don't believe the nonsense that men will draw a line with their ex-girlfriends, and don't believe the nonsense that men who have been in love understand women better, have more emotional experience, and understand love better. Love is definitely not a job, and the more you fall in love, the more emotional experience you will accumulate. For most men, if they fall in love too many times, it only means that he is fickle and is a man that women cannot control.

4. A woman who is easy to get along with and is not particular about details in life

Men love power more than they love beautiful women, so it is absolutely not wrong for men to love beautiful women. Men don’t like women who need to be looked up to. They usually like women who are easier to get along with, easier to approach and easier to get. This is the “cheap” nature of men. Women who regard men as targets to pursue generally regard men as idols or objects of worship, which can greatly enhance men's heroic complex. This is also the fundamental reason why men do not like women with ideas and personalities. Therefore, women who can seduce men usually respect men in every way and show enough affinity at all times. Such women often make men fall in love with you unknowingly.

5. The person you secretly love or pursued but failed, or your dream lover

Men always bear grudges over their secret crushes, their unrealized relationships, and even their dream lovers, and regard such unfulfilled emotions as their unfulfilled dreams. However, if such a woman walks into a man's life one day, a man with high IQ can instantly become mentally retarded. If the woman gives the man a good look, shows her former gentleness or even tenderness, of course she can melt the man's mask. For a man, she will always be the goddess in his heart, a statue that even his wife cannot shake.

6. Women who seek help and comfort from men when they are vulnerable

Men always sympathize with the weak and are born with an instinct to protect the weak. When facing a woman who cries to you, especially a woman you have always had a good impression of, men usually cannot remain indifferent, let alone have a heart of steel. Therefore, most men can confront a strong woman, but can never distinguish between public and private with a woman who needs sympathy and help. After all, the awareness of protecting women is innate. If the woman at this time behaves more cowardly and needs more protection from men, giving men the opportunity to display their heroism, men will often perform particularly vividly, because women's helplessness and weakness can always make men have wild thoughts.

7. Your opposite-sex friends or your wife’s best friend or roommate

Another type of person that men are most likely to be seduced by is their friends of the opposite sex, or "female friends". Because your wife's bestie or roommate knows you better and you have more opportunities to meet them, especially those bestie girlfriends who come to your house to relax. You can see them but not eat them, which always makes many men feel unbearable and makes many men think of crossing the line. Therefore, your wife's bestie is the person who is most likely to seduce your husband. Therefore, you must not be careless and never let your roommate or bestie appear in your emotional life, otherwise, you have always heard of what is called "letting a wolf into the house", right?

8. Female colleagues who work together or female subordinates who are directly managed

As the saying goes: men and women working together makes work less tiring. Having female colleagues in a department can indeed improve work efficiency a lot. However, when men and women are together, sparks are bound to fly, especially if male bosses use their power to increase their contact with new female college students or newly transferred female colleagues. The leader's work ability and work experience are definitely admired by new employees. Therefore, in order to show their admiration for the leader, female employees often get very close to male bosses, fall in love with each other over time, and you know the consequences without me saying it. Office romance has now become a common emotional problem among white-collar workers and is one of the main factors in destroying other people's families.

Temptations are everywhere in modern society, and those who can truly resist them are rare. The key to resisting the increasing number of temptations that are becoming more and more common lies in yourself. If you regard temptation as a delicious lunch, you will find ways to pursue it. If you really love your wife, you will not be confused by all kinds of temptations. Only when you are selfless can you have a broad mind, recognize temptation and stick to your moral bottom line.