Only the woman knows how happy she is at that moment

In her sexology report, the famous sexologist Hite described the feeling of female orgasm as follows: "My body feels suspended and full of power, a surging flame that swallows everything, and it is so wonderful that it is almost an ecstasy that people cannot bear." "I feel extremely excited - my breathing is rapid - and at the same time my head becomes light, as if I am in a dream world, the sound is far away, and time seems to be stagnant."

Yes, a woman's orgasm begins with a feeling called "suspension". At that moment she seems to be suspended in mid-air, usually for 1-3 seconds. This "sense of suspension" is equivalent to the "feeling of inevitability" that men experience before orgasm (a feeling they have when they cannot suppress ejaculation). As the clitoris is constantly and rhythmically stimulated, extremely sensitive nerves send impulses to the spinal cord, where they are immediately redirected back to the orgasm muscles in the pelvic area. The "suspension feeling" radiates from the clitoris and enters the pelvis. When this happens, the woman gradually forgets everything around her and doesn't even know where she is - just like a light gradually dimming due to low power. Her nervous system devotes most of its impulses to initiating massive bursts of muscle contractions, which squeeze the accumulated blood out of the dilated blood vessels around the outer wall of the vagina.

The woman's loss of this sense makes her feel out of control. It is because of this feeling that women's orgasm has a more unique name - "short-term death". For some women, especially those experiencing an orgasm for the first time, this loss of sensation can be terrifying. At this time, if they are afraid of losing control and being looked down upon by the man, then this completely normal orgasm reaction will be psychologically blocked, and the orgasm will not reach its maximum intensity. During this phase of orgasm, no two women react exactly the same, even though the physiological changes their bodies go through are similar. Some women are very calm; some women are either moaning or screaming; some arch their backs or bite things around them, such as their arms or pillows. When sensation begins to return—a matter of seconds—almost all women feel warmth, first in the pelvis and then throughout the body. Are multiple "explosive" orgasms abnormal?

A young woman who was getting married for the first time said with a frown that her husband was a very gentle and romantic man, and that every time they had sex, it was very successful. But recently I have been feeling anxious and uneasy about my abnormal behavior. Because every time her husband "finished his duty", he would breathe beside her with infinite comfort and happiness, and she wanted him to continue to stay in her body and lean on her. She felt that there was still a surging torrent roaring in her body, hoping that her husband could do it again. For this reason, she wondered if she had hypersexuality and felt that she had become a shameless and lewd woman. During sex, after a woman has her last contraction, her body quickly loses its sexual tension, a phase Masters and Johnson call "resolution." If they do not subside immediately, but return to the plateau phase, and can be repeatedly stimulated from the plateau phase to orgasm, this phenomenon is called "multiple orgasms", and every woman has this potential.

Having multiple orgasms during sex is not a sign of sexual deviance, nor does it mean that a woman is "oversexualized," "beastial," or "unfeminine." The survey found that some women admitted that they had a psychological burden of guilt. It turned out that they were worried that having such feelings would taint the purity and sanctity of marriage. The question of experiencing orgasm is a question of the couple's temperament, sexual maturity, preferences and choices, and the art of lovemaking.

The reason women are capable of multiple orgasms is that there are a large number of complex blood vessels in their pelvis, and the contractions of a single orgasm rarely expel all the blocked blood. It can be said that after the first orgasm, a woman is still full of sexual energy and can continue to contract. Without a lot of stimulation, she can raise the tension to the orgasm point again and again. In fact, the intensity of any orgasm she experiences depends on how engorged the veins in her pelvis are. Sometimes the amount of blood is small, so the climax is low; sometimes the amount of blood is large, and the climax reaches its peak. It is at this time that a woman is very likely to experience multiple orgasms. Sometimes due to anatomical differences, such as underdeveloped venous networks in some women, these women have difficulty reaching orgasm. This problem seemed to disappear after they had their first child. Indeed, for many women who experienced orgasm before pregnancy, orgasm comes more easily after giving birth, sometimes with multiple orgasms during their first intercourse. This is called the "pregnancy effect." This may be related to the increased energy and number of pelvic veins during pregnancy.

If the venous congestion that gradually accumulates during the sexual excitement and plateau phases is not released by orgasm, women will experience irritability, a sense of sexual failure, and even severe back pain. For example, many women experience lower back pain during menstruation when their sexual desire rises but they cannot have sex. Women who have multiple orgasms often need 3-6 orgasms to completely relax their whole body.

People are ever-changing, and it is sometimes impossible to measure a situation by a fixed standard. How high is an orgasm? In fact, this is a question that does not require an answer. As long as you can devote yourself fully to sexual life and make both husband and wife feel happy, it is enough to achieve this. Why bother to pursue some feeling of ascending to heaven? You say so.