8 types of marriage are the most unreliable

Last year, a total of 3.5 million couples in my country went through legal divorce procedures, which means that nearly 10,000 couples divorced every day. There are many reasons that lead couples to go their separate ways, and some of the common reasons are worth people's deep consideration and reference.

1. Lack of communication

Studies have found that lack of communication between couples is the main reason for the failure of marriages. About 62% of the participants said that it would have been better if they had communicated more with their ex-husband (ex-wife). 35% of men and 21% of women said they did their best to maintain their marriage.

2. Frequent quarrels

56% of divorcees said that constant arguments were the main reason for their separation from their ex. Emotional experts say that frequent quarrels that lead to no results can only cause great harm to the relationship between husband and wife. One of the main reasons for endless quarrels is the lack of mutual understanding, appreciation or empathy between couples. Once one party begins to objectively view and understand the different perspectives of their loved one, marital conflicts will cool down and problems will often be easier to resolve.

3. Habitual deception

There is no doubt that having an affair will lead to divorce. Infidelity is the third most common reason for divorce, a new survey has found. 55% of the respondents said that the direct cause of divorce was infidelity by one spouse. A well-known New York expert on extramarital affairs warns that infidelity begins with a seemingly innocent friendship between a man and a woman, and mental infidelity may develop into physical infidelity.

4. Marrying too early

Age is also a major factor leading to the breakdown of marriages. Data from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention show that nearly half of young marriages end within 15 years of marriage. Among couples who married at age 25, that rate dropped to 35%.

5. Expectations are too high

Unrealistic and high demands on married life lead to the failure of their marriage. Researchers say that many couples have beautiful expectations for marriage before marriage, but never imagine the difficulties they may encounter, and ultimately find it difficult to face reality. For couples, an important suggestion is to understand and accept certain different perceptions that may arise from time to time. As long as they can flexibly guide and communicate and look at the relationship more realistically, friction and conflict between couples will be reduced.

6. Lack of equality

The new survey found that 44% of respondents felt there was inequality in their marriage, and divorce was closely related to a lack of equality between couples. A marriage is often in jeopardy if one spouse feels that he or she is carrying too unfair a share of the responsibilities in the marriage.

7. Impulsive Marriage

41% of respondents said they rushed into marriage. Without sufficient preparation for marriage, the relationship between husband and wife is more likely to encounter bumps and bumps after marriage. Necessary premarital or marriage counseling can help couples emotionally manage and deal with marital problems.

8. Sadistic

New research finds that 29% of divorces are caused by domestic violence. For victims of domestic violence, divorce is a more complicated process. Most importantly, make sure you are safe before filing for separation or divorce. Second, let your close family and friends know about the dangers of preparing for or announcing a divorce, and get their help. It is also very important to seek legal help when necessary.