6 places where men become soft when touched in bed

There has been a saying since ancient times that heroes save beauties. Men all like beauties. Therefore, in the minds of men, they all hope to be a hero admired by beauties.

It's a pity that we live in a civilized society, so there aren't that many beauties who need men with their strong bodies to act as their protectors.

But this does not mean that men will give up their heroic dreams. To men, ridiculing them for being timid is nothing more than implying that they are not manly enough, which is an insult to them.

2. People criticize your appearance

I always thought that only women cared about their appearance, but men also care about it. Recently, a friend of mine got a girlfriend, and he always felt that his standard body shape was not strong enough and could not give his girlfriend enough sense of security.

In fact, his girlfriend said that her man is quite muscular. So a man’s lack of confidence in his appearance often comes from his own psychological pressure. In fact, what women care about is not how tall, strong or handsome a man is, but how sincere the man is to her.

However, it is said that men care about other people's comments on their appearance because they are confident in their genes. Just like short men always want to find a tall woman, they hope to make up for their shortcomings through complementarity. So if a woman is picky about a man's appearance, the man will understand that she is not optimistic about his genes.

3. Praise another man in front of him

Just as women don't want men to praise another woman in front of them, men also mind women praising another man in front of them, even if the man is the woman's relative or his friend.

Men cannot tolerate a woman praising another man desperately when she is with him. This not only makes the man feel that you look down on him, but is also a very stupid behavior.

Think about it, most men love to save face, especially in front of their beloved women, most of them hope to get the other party's affirmation. If you praise another man in front of him, it is nothing more than telling him that there is another man who is better than him. If this man happens to be someone he knows, think about which man can tolerate it?

4. Being Exposed

It is also a face issue, and actually involves the issue of being a human being. Imagine if a woman was exposed by others that she had undergone double eyelid surgery at a certain time on a certain day in a certain place. I think she would feel very unhappy at that time, right? As the saying goes, don't hit people in the face, and don't expose people's shortcomings when scolding them. Exposing people's shortcomings is originally a mean behavior. Even if you are a close lover, you should not easily step into this forbidden zone.

As a smart woman, you should know when silence is golden.

Being ignorant is always the highest state in life. People who speak their mind are always easy to offend others. A man's failure is like a scar, which he only needs to lick himself slowly. What women should do is to learn to make their memory a little worse.

5. Publicizing Private Life

I remember a woman I knew before. She always liked to talk about things between her and her husband. For example, one day she washed her husband's underwear and put it on the balcony to dry, but it was blown away by the wind. Or, she bought a few cans of soda and a few rolls of toilet paper today and had to ask her husband to reimburse her in the evening. She even talked about the fact that her husband snored at night.

Everyone has two sides. Her husband is a man of some social status and has many supporters in front of and behind the scenes. In their own homes, all men will take down their arms and return to their truest selves, and at this moment he is also defenseless, picking his nose and scratching his scalp.

If a woman talks about the secret between you and him, it is tantamount to exposing his soft spots and weaknesses to others. He will feel betrayed and will refuse to show his true side in front of you.

6. Sexual Performance

Every man hopes that he can be strong and durable, and can control himself freely, but there will always be times when men are unable to do so. A woman’s attitude when facing a man’s inability to do so will greatly affect his future performance. What is particularly bad is that some women like to publicize the private addictions between husband and wife. You should know that men’s inability is not entirely due to physiological problems, many of which come from psychological problems. Women’s ridicule is the cause of men’s “psychological inability”.

For example, the woman I mentioned earlier, her husband doesn’t come home for three days or so, and everyone knows what’s going on. Because she had been married for many years and had not given birth to a child, she was afraid of being laughed at, so she spread the word that her husband was not good in bed. I think for a man, being incompetent in bed may be a much more serious problem than being poor, so the man openly goes out with young and beautiful women, using his actions to tell everyone that he is not "incompetent" , but that he has no "sexual interest" in his wife.

As to whether it is just a show, we don't know. I only know that no matter whether it works or not, women should not talk about it everywhere.