What are the six most unspeakable secrets for remarried women?

With the awakening of women's self-awareness, they no longer submit to the humiliation of their cheating husbands, no longer remain silent about violent marriages, and no longer endure their lives in secrecy for the sake of their children. They bravely stand up to fight against fate, refuse to give up on themselves, refuse to admit defeat, and bravely move towards divorce.

1. When choosing a spouse, you lack confidence and lower your standards to choose a man.

When they are young, women believe in love, are full of confidence, and are willing to do anything for love. When remarrying, one sees the true face of men and the cruelty of reality. One becomes full of doubts and disappointment in one's own life. One loses the will to fight and confidence, and even feels that one is inferior to others and unworthy of happiness. So, when remarrying, one gets married just for the sake of getting married and lowers one's standards for choosing a spouse. Women don’t know that the man you look down upon from the beginning will never be someone you can live with for the rest of your life.

2. When in love, you doubt the man’s character and hesitate to get married.

When I fall in love again, I am already familiar with the process of relationship development. There is no mystery or passion anymore, and I even start to doubt the man's character. Many women are deeply traumatized by divorce and are unable to get out of the shadow for a while. During their relationship, they will constantly question their partner’s character and have a fear of marriage. Willing to date the other person, but afraid to get married, fearing that the other person is not worthy of entrusting one's life to.

3. When living together, worry that a remarried man will care about his performance in bed.

When I decided to develop a closer relationship with the other person, I began to feel that I was not perfect enough and was very insecure about myself. I worried that my poor figure would be disliked by the other person, and that the other person would care about my sexual performance and that the other person would mind that I was a divorced woman. Love is anxious and cautious. In fact, women don’t need to worry so much. A man who truly loves you will think you are full of femininity and charm, because beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.

4. When pregnant, men who are remarried are afraid of the pregnancy history.

In order to consolidate the marriage after marriage, many men will ask for children. However, some women, because of ignorance and lack of knowledge in taking care of their bodies during their first marriage, got pregnant several times for their ex-husbands. Therefore, they have many worries during their second marriage: Can they get pregnant? Am I an elderly mother? Is it still suitable for having children? Does he care about his pregnancy history? No matter when, women, you must learn to cherish yourself, because it is the capital that makes you happy.

5. When giving birth to a baby, you are afraid that the remarried man will not love the baby.

Many women fight for custody of their children when they divorce because they cannot bear to see their children live with a stepmother. However, when they remarry, they worry that their second husband will not love their children. During a second marriage and pregnancy, a woman is most worried that her child will be ostracized and will be disfavored from then on, which causes unusually high stress during pregnancy. When there is no guarantee that your remarried husband can love your children as much as you do, the only thing you can do is to love your children consistently and let them feel your happiness and love.

6. After giving birth, I worry that the conflicts between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law will continue to escalate.

In a second marriage, a woman may worry that her mother-in-law may not be able to truly accept her. Because you already have an ex-wife, your mother-in-law will constantly compare you with her. If you are better than her, maybe your mother-in-law will be a little relieved. If it is not good, then the relationship between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law may be more difficult to handle, and the old resentment towards her may accumulate and be vented on you. Remember, there are 16 words to keep in mind when dealing with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law: keep your distance, speak less, respect each other, and be courteous.