Love and sex hide such a "myriad of connections"

Chinese culture is based on Confucianism and ethical principles, so Chinese people always talk about love but are shy about talking about sex. In fact, nature is neither good nor evil, good and evil depend on people; nature is neither beautiful nor ugly, beauty and ugliness depend on human affairs.

Although we often keep silent about sex, the relationship between love and sex cannot be ignored. They are like islands in the sea. What is above the water is love, and what is under the water is sex.

Sex is both the potential source of love and its desired outcome. It is the starting point of love and its end point. Whether or not one is sexually happy may seem harmless, but it can often lead to the demise of love and the breakdown of marriage. Therefore, we should not only talk about it, but also pay attention to it. This is really a topic that cannot be avoided.

Studies have shown that men fantasize about sex 34.2 times a day, which is about once every 28 minutes excluding the 8 hours of sleep; women fantasize an average of 18.6 times a day, which is about once every 51 minutes excluding the 8 hours of sleep. It can be seen that sex permeates our lives and is everywhere.

In addition to the different frequencies of fantasies, men and women also have different peaks of desire.

After men and women reach physical maturity, the sexual desire level of men shows a slowly declining trend; while the opposite is true for women, showing a slowly rising trend. Among the factors that affect the harmony of life of middle-aged couples, the contrast between the needs and abilities of men and women is an important factor. In a sense, this can also be said to be a joke played by God, a bitter prank.

But this is not absolute!

For men, physiologically, the slow decline in androgen levels should occur after the age of 50-55. However, with the fast-paced pressure of urban life and the continuous deterioration of the living environment, this age is being advanced year by year.

Therefore, if you want to avoid premature ageing or even delay it, you need earlier maintenance, preferably after the age of 30.

The so-called maintenance is about perseverance. In addition to learning how to adjust their mentality and eliminate the negative effects of work and life pressure, men should also develop and maintain the habit of exercise.

In terms of diet, you can strengthen your spleen and enhance prostate function by taking 5-10ml of pumpkin seed oil every day. Modern medicine has proven that pumpkin seeds are rich in essential fatty acids, amino acids, phytosterols, minerals, vitamins and mucopolysaccharides. Refined pumpkin seed oil has significant effects on preventing kidney stones, adjusting bladder and urethral functions, and relieving symptoms of prostate hyperplasia.

For a woman, having fierce demands may not be her original intention. Scientifically speaking, the reason why women's needs change with age is mainly due to the imbalance of estrogen androgen in the body.

In fact, women also have male hormones in their bodies, which will increase with age, but female hormones are exactly the opposite, tending to decrease with age. The imbalance between the two is the fundamental reason why women continue to desire.

Therefore, the key to female regulation is to maintain estrogen. Estrogen comes from women's ovaries. The decline in ovarian function is a natural result of age on the one hand, and is also due to the invasion of gynecological inflammation on the other. It is recommended that women pay attention to their physical hygiene, take more showers, eat less raw and cold food, and drink dandelion tea appropriately, which can help to remove heat and inflammation and fight against various types of inflammation. In addition, dandelion tea also has a good preventive and therapeutic effect on acute mastitis.

When our physiology is no longer at odds, we should also learn to understand and tolerate psychologically. Men should care more about women and give her enough warmth with your broad chest. Women should also be more considerate of men and not lose their elegance in their old age. Everything in the world requires painstaking efforts to succeed. Only the accumulation of effort every day can bring about a long-lasting married life.

If you have sexual happiness, is happiness far away?