Three tips for men to coax their wives

Some male friends think that women nowadays are difficult to deal with, they are always in a bad mood and complain that marriage is torturous. But then again, a man has to give his wife happiness when he marries her. If he can't give her happiness, he won't be able to hold a woman's heart, and sooner or later his wife will become someone else's. Fortunately, women love to be coaxed the most. As long as a man coaxes his wife well, he can make his wife loyal to him and make the family harmonious and happy.

1. Use praise to make your wife feel at ease.

Women not only like sweet words, but also like compliments. They will enjoy it even if they know that their husband's compliments are not realistic. The more praise a woman receives for something, the more willing she is to do it well. Men should make full use of this characteristic when coaxing their wives, comfort women through praise rather than criticism, and mobilize women's enthusiasm to support their husbands' careers. For example: When a man receives complaints about his lack of time to take care of the family, if not handled properly it can easily lead to quarrels between the couple. The man only needs to say to his wife: "I'm busy with work and can't be home all day. Our family is thanks to you. Thank you for your understanding and support!" After the wife receives praise from her husband, she cannot express her resentment even if she feels resentful.

This kind of long-term guidance is to give women a self-suggestion: instead of complaining and making your husband unhappy, it is more practical to be at ease and earn a few compliments. When a man corrects his wife for being unkempt or not good at housework, he can also achieve twice the result with half the effort by praising her every bit of progress.

2. Use your care to tell your wife to be at ease.

Women are more fragile than men in their hearts and need to have enough sense of security in marriage. Women without a sense of security are neither confident nor happy. With the development of society and the continuous updating of the concept of marriage and love, there are more and more men who are promiscuous and unfaithful. Women need to spend a lot of time to prevent men from being unfaithful. Naturally, they will feel physically and mentally exhausted, which leads to bad complexion, bad mood, and bad temper... Practice has proved that women who are confident in their marriages will do their best to support men's careers. If a man wants a woman to assist him wholeheartedly, he must use his care to make his wife feel at ease.

There are many ways for men to care for their wives. Small favors and expressions of love on important days are all expressions of love. This kind of care will make women feel that their husbands always keep them in their hearts. For example: staying by the wife's bedside when she is sick and asking about her well-being; giving her a hug when she is happy or unhappy; handing her a glass of water or helping her with cooking; buying her a small gift she likes when she is on a business trip; giving her a bouquet of flowers on Valentine's Day; inviting friends to celebrate her birthday, etc. All these kinds of care will make a woman feel extremely happy.

3. Use praise to stimulate your wife’s filial piety.

Most couples nowadays have only one child and need to take care of multiple elderly people. When a woman gets married, she is actually marrying into the man's family. Because traditional concepts are deeply rooted and the other party is not considered as a family member, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has become the most difficult family relationship to handle. Although marital happiness depends on the emotional foundation between husband and wife, discord between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has a great impact on the marriage. It is particularly important for men to coordinate the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law after marriage. Although there are many ways to create a harmonious relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, since most mothers-in-law only want respect and filial piety from their daughters-in-law, instead of passively coordinating after a conflict between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, men should take precautions in advance, stimulate their wives' filial piety from the day of marriage, mobilize their wives' enthusiasm for respecting their mother-in-law, and guide the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to have a good relationship by exchanging hearts.

Therefore, men should be good at discovering their wives' little acts of filial piety and give timely praise. With encouragement, their wives will do better. As a son, you should also pay attention to your mother's reaction. When your wife's filial piety gets a kind response from your mother, you should give her a thumbs up. Otherwise, you need to remind your mother to treat her daughter-in-law well.