What women should know about the evolution of men's marriage

In reality, many men enter the dead end of marriage because of hunger. When they are hungry, they will eat anything and use the ticket of a "marriage certificate" to knock on the door of a woman with the hands of morality and law. Chinese women are used to being complacent about using a piece of marriage paper to enclose a piece of land for themselves, and quickly feed men from hungry to full and satisfied, trying to make them full and forget about food and life. But everything is relative. As the saying goes, when you are well fed and warm, you will think about sex. As natural carnivores, how can men easily stop looking for food?

A man's steps should never stop. To stop would be a blasphemy to men as a species, because only through exercise can a man fully utilize his strength, physiology and even the advantages of fickleness, thereby maximizing his self-worth. The same goes for marriage. Men must move forward in marriage with an evolutionary mindset and rhythm, while smart and successful women will always know how to follow the speed of men's marriage evolution, guiding, restraining, supervising and influencing the speed of men's marriage evolution, so that it moves on a track that they can accept and predict.

Below is a brief discussion of the evolution of men’s marriage from three aspects: emotion, responsibility and sexual desire.

First, the evolution of emotion.

For the vast majority of men, their emotions before marriage are focused. This focus may be due to pure love, or it may be a focus on food due to hunger, or perhaps a focus on exploration due to curiosity. But not long after marriage, this emotion will become distracted, distracted by confusion about love, distracted by longing for other foods, and distracted by numbness after the truth of the marriage is revealed. In short, their emotions are already evolving. It evolved into indifference to love and reminiscing about innocence, and then evolved into desire and struggle for ambiguity.

Second, the evolution of responsibility.

A man's sense of responsibility is as important as a woman's chastity, but the difference is that a woman's chastity is explicit and can be intuitively perceived from the beginning, while a man's sense of responsibility is implicit and can only be tested in a long marriage. Many men don’t know what responsibility is before marriage, and even if they do, their sense of responsibility is weak. But a man who can take responsibility after marriage must be sincere and patient before marriage. Therefore, a man’s responsibility towards marriage must evolve from sincerity and patience before marriage. But there are also a few men whose sincerity and patience will turn into incompetence, philandering and selfishness because of their own abilities, greed and loss of control.

Third, the evolution of sexual desire.

If a man is compared to a lower animal, then a man is an animal in estrus before marriage. Estrus is a watershed in the evolution of a man's sexual desire, which determines whether his future will be based on feeding on captive animals or feeding on the wild. As a woman, if you meet a man who is very wild, and you don't want him to run wild after marriage, then you must know how to tame him and make yourself wild moderately so that on the one hand he will be afraid of and respect your wildness, and on the other hand he will be able to accept your wildness. This kind of wildness is a process of a woman's increasing sexual interest, and it is also a reflection of her ability to control men. This may be another reason why all men like their wives to be sluts in bed.

Based on the above three points, we can basically be sure that the reason why a good man is good is not only because he is good by nature, but also because he meets a good woman in marriage who understands him and can control the rhythm of his marital evolution; on the other hand, the reason why a bad man is bad is not only because he is bad by nature, but also because he meets an incompetent woman in marriage who does not understand him and cannot control and guide the evolution of his marriage.