Women, do you really need a man's loyalty?

For example, the prince in Cinderella, or more popularly, Daomingsi in Meteor Garden, gave up the entire forest for an ordinary woman. He was not "unfaithful", "old-fashioned", or "betrayal of an alliance", and was therefore respected and loved by the majority of female friends. However, a bad man like Sima Xiangru, who was full of enthusiasm for the young lady in Maoling, was despised by his female friends.

A man who is loyal to "love" is precious, trustworthy and reliable to women. The media and rumors throughout history have repeatedly pointed out the sanctity of Changcun Baozhuxin and that Chen Shimei deserved it. In fact, what women need is not loyalty.

First of all, women are not very rational. It is not love that determines whether a woman becomes a man's wife or mistress. Love is an ethereal thing, so abstract that there is no measurement to evaluate its value. Therefore, they like and dislike every man around them. It is impossible to accurately judge who is better or worse. They love every man equally.

Then, to possess them, it all depends on how brave the man is. The first person who pounces on it and holds it down is the winner. Maybe after being taken down, women will feel that it is not appropriate, but they usually respond by giving in. Forget it, just let it go. The matter is done. What more can one ask for? Of course, there are some women who are very strong and powerful, and whether they can hold the man down if they pounce on him remains to be proven. At this time, the way to make them bow their heads is to be sentimental. Since women are incapable of rational thinking, they call their marriage "female confusion", meaning that they accidentally lost their minds and ended up like this.

In fact, when have they ever been sober? They focus on emotional, superficial and superficial things. It is too easy to impress them. Just go and wait downstairs of her dormitory, obey the woman's call and be available at any time. Be as gentle as the pretty boy in any of Qiong Yao's books. Or, imitate the male protagonist in My Sassy Girl. As long as you give up your human dignity infinitely and act the most submissive, you will move the woman so much that she will think she is loved. A "good man" will neither throw himself on others nor be servile.

Secondly, since "bad men" are unfaithful, they are experts in creating love, while "good men" are too stubborn and are therefore amateurs in this area. This is not a question of IQ, but is influenced by practical experience. Although noble qualities are worthy of worship, life is made up of ordinary details. In this process, what is needed is interest, not noble and meticulous coverage.

We can take out 3 to 10 minutes every week or even every day to admire broadness, but we must never be dominated by such things. For women, they marry and seek sexual partners for happiness; they are not a fable, so they will not marry a certain idea and will not sacrifice their happiness on the altar of nobility. "Bad men" are more adept at creating happiness.

Bai Juyi once taught us: The young men of Wuling vied with each other to tie their hair, and they knew not how many red silks were used for one song. Just ask, what kind of scenery is this? Or, what an honor it is! But the so-called "good man" cannot be so "intoxicating". Unfortunately, only clients of prostitutes can create this kind of thrilling atmosphere.