How to deal with the nine unexpected situations in couples' sex?

Emergency 1: Not ejaculating for too long

When you have sex too frequently, the time of ejaculation will be prolonged or even no ejaculation will occur, such as newlyweds. Because the seminal vesicle has capacity and the amount of semen is limited, and the secretion of the seminal vesicle and prostate takes time, too frequent sexual intercourse not only drains out your body's reserves, but also causes the ejaculation center to change from initial excitement to subsequent inhibition, ultimately leading to the tragedy of being unable to ejaculate. Sometimes, excessive masturbation, taking bitter medications or long-term alcohol abuse can also lead to temporary inability to ejaculate. Although that is a good thing, don't be too eager for pleasure! You don't want to die the same way as Mr. Ximen, do you?

You must see a doctor in the following situations: lasting long is good, but lasting too long is not good. If you are unable to ejaculate for a long time and have adverse reactions such as dizziness and tachycardia, try to rest for a few days and eat more vegetables or ginseng. Observe for a week. If there is still no sign of improvement, please go to the andrology department for a check-up. Chinese medicine has a good effect on this problem.

Emergency 2: End the battle within 5 minutes

If you accidentally "fire", don't be nervous, you will soon be back to being a good man after your physical strength recovers. Suddenly having sex after a long period of not having sex can cause premature ejaculation. When you are too excited, sex can be quick and easy. Relax yourself and avoid any overly stimulating movements. No one can stand sprinting all the time. Try the position of woman on top and man on bottom. When you feel you are about to ejaculate, adjust your posture. Do this a few times and you will naturally prolong the time. When it comes to sex life, 20 minutes including foreplay is enough. You don't need to be too strict on yourself, nor do you need to envy those guys from neighboring countries who can't ejaculate in an hour on AV. They don't rely on their bull-like bodies, but on god-like editing.

You must see a doctor in the following situations: What is truly considered premature ejaculation refers to people who have completed ejaculation before entering the female body or have sexual intercourse for no more than 2 minutes. If you have the above conditions for a long time and are sure that it is not caused by physical fatigue or psychological disorders, then please go see a doctor.

Emergency 3: The condom breaks or falls off

Halfway through the intercourse, when the passion is in full swing, she finds that the condom is broken when changing positions. Will she get pregnant? Our answer is: very likely. There are many reasons why condoms break or fall off, such as: the condom is not the right size, the condom is not good enough, she is not wet enough, or you are having sex in the bathroom. At this time, please stop all your actions, put on a new condom, and then practice again. Doing so may not waste more of your time, but if you are a responsible good man, please do not hold on to the last moment of your hopes, as doing so will only increase your chances of becoming a father.

You must see a doctor in the following situations: If you unfortunately find that the condom is broken after sex, it means that the contraception has failed, and you need to buy her a box of emergency contraceptive pills. If you find the condom is gone when you find the emergency, I kid you not, it is impossible to get it out of her, take her to the hospital!

Emergency 4: I can’t get an erection

It is very unhelpful to suddenly not be able to get hard at the critical moment. Facing a weak penis, how can you be worthy of the surging desire in your heart? How can you be worthy of the girl's eager eyes? How can you be worthy of those previous nights of self-soothing? It is not uncommon for you to suddenly not be able to get hard in bed. Excessive sexual activity, frequent masturbation, hard work, psychological stress, and colds can all cause temporary impotence. But it's not incurable: constantly giving yourself the impression that you have the disease may make it worse. Take care of your body and emotions and become healthy. Try again after reducing smoking and drinking, and you might be able to get an erection.

You must see a doctor in the following situations: Since you are unable to maintain an erection, you might as well give yourself a good rest for a few days, stay up late less, supplement with more vegetables and vitamins, and at the same time observe your morning erections and other conditions. If you find that the misfire situation has not improved, please go to the andrology department to register: let the doctor take good care of you.

Emergency 5: Dissonant sound

During intercourse, as you move in and out, gas is discharged from the woman's vagina, and the sound is like farting, and the woman cannot control it. In severe cases, the sound continues until you finish. This is the "vaginal flatulence" that makes men ashamed and women embarrassed. It is common in women who are physically weak and mentally depressed. Traditional Chinese medicine believes that the pathogenesis of vaginal flatulence is dysfunction of the spleen and stomach, which causes the failure of clear qi to rise, turbid yin to descend, qi movement to become disordered, and stomach qi to leak downward, leading to vaginal flatulence. It will be much better if you do more local tightening exercises. Many people believe that vaginal flatulence is a gynecological disease, which is unfair.

You must see a doctor in the following situations: If your female partner not only has vaginal flatulence, but also has complications such as increased vaginal discharge, vulvar itching or vaginal discomfort. Then this phenomenon should alert you. Vaginal flatulence is only a superficial phenomenon. You should persuade her to go to the hospital to see a gynecologist and receive professional and systematic treatment under the guidance of a doctor.

Emergency 6: Stranger Breaking In

Although we have repeatedly reminded you not to have sex in public places, not to mention in the couple seats in the cinema, noisy bars or in the KTV bathroom, it is dangerous even if you are in your own car. Even if you really want to have some exciting and romantic fun in a public place, you must first survey the surrounding environment to prevent any emergencies. However, there will always be uninvited guests who suddenly appear and disturb your interest. At this moment, no matter what stage your affair is in, even at the moment before the sprint, you must grit your teeth, quickly leave her body, and then quickly help her cover her important parts to prevent the scene from becoming more embarrassing and out of control. In addition, we provide you with a more convenient and quicker way. If you are close to the door, please get up quickly and lock the door without waiting for the other party to react. Wait until you are fully dressed before showing it to others.

You must seek medical attention in the following situations: If you unfortunately encounter this kind of emergency, you generally don't need to go to the doctor to trouble a lot of people. However, if you find that your naked body has been photographed by someone with ulterior motives and even circulated widely on the Internet, then calm down. If you want to become famous, you can bear with it and do nothing; if you don’t want to become famous in this way, you can quickly call 110 and cry to the police, and they will help you.

Emergency 7: Sudden bleeding

Many guys have encountered such a situation: in the middle of sex, they found a little blood on the bed sheet, and when they were wondering why they didn't feel any pain, they heard the girl tell you with regret: her period came. Another situation is that the amount of bleeding is not much, and you often find blood when you wipe it after the battle. This is because she has vaginal bleeding. It is very likely that your excessive movement caused her vaginal abrasion, which is generally not a big problem. In addition, emergency contraceptive pills may also cause irregular vaginal bleeding in women.

You must seek medical attention in the following situations: Simple contact bleeding is not a big deal, but if your girlfriend often has sudden spotting outside of her menstrual period, you must not take it lightly and take her to the hospital for treatment. This contact bleeding may be closely related to terrible gynecological diseases such as vaginitis, cervical erosion, and cervical polyps.

Emergency 8: Water is needed

At this moment, you have held your head high and are eagerly waiting for the organization's inspection. You are also eagerly waiting for the moment of real fighting. However, when you really get close to her, you find that you can't enter her no matter what - because she is not wet enough. The reason for this phenomenon may be that you are too impatient to skip the foreplay. You have the ability to load your gun at any time, but the girl cannot provide you with a wet swamp at any time. Now that we have reached the critical step, it is obviously inhumane to ask you to stop and have foreplay again, and directly telling her about this situation will affect her interest. Why not try lubricant? It is the simplest, but also the most effective.

You must see a doctor in the following situations: If you find that she has difficulty getting wet even with sufficient foreplay, then you need to take her to see a doctor. Some gynecological diseases can cause women's body fluids to dry up, and in severe cases, it can also cause discomfort such as painful intercourse and decreased libido. In addition, if you have been entangled all night long, don't expect her to always be warm and wet waiting for you to enter. This is the same as your penis cannot stand up immediately after it becomes soft.

Emergency 9: Failure in bed!

Don't laugh, this kind of tragedy is not uncommon in bed. Penis fracture often occurs when the penis is erect. Because of your impatience, the penis hits the woman's pubic bone or perineum violently, causing a fracture. Some brothers also suffer internal injuries due to masturbation and breaking the penis. When it breaks, there is often a crisp sound, accompanied by severe pain, and then the penis erection subsides. The penis swells, becomes deformed when bent, and leans to one side. As a female editor, when I wrote this, I felt the pain for my brothers. Once this unfortunate thing happens, don't panic, quickly raise the penis, quickly apply cold compress, and then change to hot compress after 24 hours. Of course, I advise you not to wait for that 24 hours, go to the hospital quickly!