The eight most harmful sexual habits

While enjoying the beauty of sex, some people are unaware that they are causing physical harm to both parties because of some bad habits that they are not even aware of. The following 8 bad sex habits can give you timely reminders and are also the most undesirable ways of having sex.

Bad habit 1: Quick sex.

Disadvantages: Quickie sex is often preceded by a very short foreplay, which can catch the woman off guard and cause pain to both parties. Not only will you not have the proper pleasure, but it will also cause damage to your lower body. Over time, the one who cannot feel the love will become sexually frigid.

Advice: It is normal for couples to have no sex for a period of time due to busyness. But if you treat serving the other party as a task, the result will be counterproductive. Therefore, if you really have no interest in sex, you can sleep separately for a while. Just like appetite, when you are hungry, you will naturally want to have a good meal.

Bad habit 2: Secondary activation.

Disadvantages: Sometimes, after doing it once, men want to do it again to show that they are strong. Doing this will keep the man's body in an excited state, and if it happens too often, he will suffer from erectile dysfunction. Some couples who like to have a second try often realize after a few months that sex is not a temporary solution when the man is no longer as strong as he used to be.

Advice: One intense sex session is much more pleasurable and healthier than two hurried ones.

Bad habit three: having unsafe sex.

Disadvantages: In fact, any method of sex between lovers is acceptable, but the problem is that you don’t know whether the other person has other germs in that part of the body, and sometimes he (she) doesn’t know either. If you use unsafe methods to achieve happiness, you are undoubtedly sowing dangerous seeds for your health.

Advice: No matter what, safe sex brings happiness, and the premise of fancy sex is that it is healthy and feasible.

Bad habit 4: Taking emergency contraceptive pills frequently.

Disadvantages: Young and lustful lovers want the best pleasure and do not want to use condoms, so they will have the woman take emergency contraceptive pills within 72 hours of having sex to avoid accidental pregnancy. However, no medicine can be guaranteed to be 100% safe. It's okay to take medicine occasionally, but if this method is used frequently, it will cause great harm to her body. Long-term use will cause drug resistance and will not be able to achieve contraceptive effect.

Advice: If you really can't help yourself and don't want to use condoms, then it is recommended that one party use birth control pills. Contraceptive injections are also available, which can last for a week, a month, or half a year. For couples who live together for a long time, it is better to use condoms.

Bad habit 5: Waiting to reach the wonderful peak together.

Disadvantages: When waiting for her, forcing yourself not to ejaculate will reduce the pleasure. After a long time, men will not be able to feel the freedom and fun of sex. Some men satisfy their wife first, but, as a result of waiting, he rarely reaches orgasm at the same time as she does.

Advice: In fact, no matter how much a couple loves each other, they cannot always reach the wonderful climax together. When you are in your 20s, the man should move faster and the woman should move slower, which can increase foreplay moderately; after age 30, the woman should move faster and the man should move slower, which can reduce the time spent on intimacy. When both parties feel like reaching for the final sprint, they can just experience their own happiness.

Bad habit six: Drinking cold drinks immediately after sex.

Disadvantage: After sex, you are sweating profusely and suddenly want to drink water, and your lover immediately gives it to you from the refrigerator. The result of doing this is: you will feel uncomfortable all over the next day. Drinking cold drinks after sex not only makes you prone to stomach problems, but is also an infringement on the entire stretched body.

Advice: If you love him (her), prepare some warm water or hot drinks.

Bad habit seven: Touching someone without washing hands.

Disadvantages: Needless to say, everyone knows its disadvantages. However, sometimes we forget to clean ourselves first because of desire. Newly married couples, in particular, often have impromptu sex. But you should know that sensitive parts of the body are also very sensitive to bacteria. If you don't pay attention to hygiene, germs will take advantage of the opportunity to enter.

Advice: Even if you don’t have time to take a shower, you must wash your hands clean. This is the most basic thing.

Bad habit 8: Using sex toys out of curiosity.

Disadvantages: Sex toys are sexual tools used when one partner is away for a long time or is unwell. However, some couples become dependent on it after using it and are no longer interested in their partner's body. This will make people feel more lonely after using it, and will cause psychological problems over time.

Advice: Not only will you feel lonely, but if you don’t disinfect it thoroughly or promptly after use, your genitals may also become infected with bacteria. Therefore, whether it is out of curiosity or to get satisfaction, it is important to use it properly and disinfect it in time.