99% of men don’t know these three little secrets of their wives

What men can never guess in their entire lives is women's thoughts. That's why there is a saying that "a woman's heart is like a needle in the sea." Many men feel that women have too many thoughts, which change all the time and are hard to figure out. For those men who are more cautious, it is very difficult to have a good relationship. Many men must not know the following three little secrets.

1. Women don’t like serious men

Women's shyness is a natural trait, but it is also a kind of acquired "disguise", whether it is in ordinary or deep interactions. If a man looks like a hooligan from the beginning, he will most likely be rejected by women.

However, no matter how shy a woman is, she will not like a man who is serious every day, and she will not like a dull man even more. She will only think that such a man is unromantic and his words are boring. The desires suppressed in their hearts due to shyness cannot be relieved, and naturally they lack the motivation to continue the relationship.

Solution:

When pursuing a woman, be polite when you first meet her. After you get to know her better, you may tell sexy jokes and talk about some embarrassing topics. This will greatly help the development of the relationship. However, it is important to be sensible, not vulgar, and be subtle, so that women can gradually adapt.

2. Friendships between women are fragile

Women can get along very closely with each other and share all kinds of large-scale topics and secrets. But this is a completely different concept from friendship between men. Men can go through a big event and still be good friends. No matter how close the relationship between women is, it may break down because of a small thing, and men are often the fuse.

As women, we will compare ourselves with each other and feel that we are not as good as each other, not as pretty or gentle as each other, or not as popular with men as each other. This kind of hidden psychology often makes women feel threatened by their best friends. Once she finds out that her best friend is doing anything intimate with her man, her psychological defenses will immediately collapse and she will do something impulsive.

Solution:

Never compare your woman with her best friend, don't praise other women in front of your woman, stay away from your woman's best friend, and stay as far away from them as possible. Even if you are joking, don't involve a woman's best friend. This is a taboo. In this situation, either they turn against each other or you two fall out. If you find that your girlfriend and her best friend have stopped seeing each other for unknown reasons, even though it may feel strange, don't be overly concerned or even try to bring them together.

3. Women pursue beauty to give men face.

Women always feel that they are not pretty enough, do not have enough beautiful clothes, and do not have enough beautiful shoes to wear. Even if you tell her a thousand times that she is the princess in your mind and your only one, she will often still feel insecure. On the one hand, loving beauty is a woman’s nature, especially when she is with other women, she can’t help but want to compete with others. On the other hand, women pursue beauty in order to save face for their husbands and are afraid of losing points for their men in social situations.

Maybe many men don’t care about this, but women pay special attention to it. If you are still a dull person and don't realize this at all, and often make fun of her figure and face, or even feel annoyed by her love of beauty, this will hurt a woman's heart. It even deprived her of her sense of security.

Solution:

Tell her: Honey, I take you out to have fun, not to save face. And if I like you, I will like everything about you. I will not care whether you look good or not, whether your clothes are pretty or not, whether you are prettier than others or not, and I will not care what others think. It is you that I like. No matter how beautiful someone else is, it will not change the fact that I like you.

Conclusion: Although "women's hearts are as elusive as the sea's needle", as long as you understand these little secrets, women are easy to please!