Seven love courses that single women must take

In the course of love, we are all beginners. We cannot be sure whether we really understand the meaning of it. We can only avoid losing everything through repeated exploration. I am not an expert, just a friend who has some insights into marriage. I just hope that people like me who have been at the crossroads of love and marriage can really know what they want? And that can give you a little more confidence when you make a decision. So compare emotional intelligence to the end!

1. Be as forgetful as a goldfish

Eight out of ten things in life are not as we wish, and it is normal to encounter unfortunate things. It is wonderful to encounter a love that makes people feel relaxed and happy, but when we encounter a bad relationship, we must learn to forget it after the rain. Summarizing the enlightenment brought to us by unfortunate relationships is an elective course, but if you give up your required courses for elective courses, won’t you miss out on more?

Women’s ability to self-heal in relationships is really poor. An insignificant relationship can reduce a woman’s confidence and charm back to their original state. There are too many women who cannot get out of the shadow of the past and carry the cross all their lives. A woman still has to walk her own love path in the future, so she should face it bravely and then face the future with a smile. It's hard to find a three-legged frog in the world, but there are still many people with two legs!

2. Thicker skin than grapefruit

As the saying goes: When a man pursues a woman, it's like a mountain between them; when a woman pursues a man, it's like a layer of gauze between them. Sisters, when you see a good man, don’t miss him because of your reserve, and then regret it. Like my mom said, if you meet a good man, don't let him go. It doesn't mean that when you meet a man, you should rush after him like a crazy fan, but it means that women can take every relationship seriously and try their best to have no regrets. They don't want everything to be an afterthought, and in the end everyone is in pairs while you are alone.

Being good to yourself is the right thing to do, and telling others and the people you love that you love them is the wisest thing to do. There is nothing to be shy about. Don't wait for a good man to get tired and then fill the vacancy yourself. Instead, you should know your own feelings and take the initiative. Even if you fail, you will not leave yourself with regrets!

3. Love yourself selflessly and love men selfishly

Women always have too much love and tears. When their maternal instinct overflows, they always wipe away their tears secretly by themselves. It is said that maternal love is as great as the sky, but what about the love of a devoted woman? I don’t think it will be inferior to maternal love. Loving a man selfishly may seem unfair to many men, but if a woman loves herself timidly and forgetfully, how can she really give her man enough love and care?

Be an independent woman. They may have different personalities and may be a little bit feminine, but they are their own masters. They will not deliberately cater to men's preferences, will not give without restraint, and will not lose everything. Understand and be aware of your own needs, arrange your life and emotions reasonably, do not bow your head or beg because of worldly rules and so-called fate, know your own life, and do your best to accomplish what you have determined. Know yourself to live better!

4. Understand that giving up is another kind of possession

This world has given women a wider space, but also another kind of inescapable responsibility. Therefore, many women give up love for this responsibility, and many women give up this responsibility for love! Ambition has created legends for women, but also painted countless desolations for the backs of strong women. Women often work harder for the life they pursue, so much so that they end up missing out on a lot.

For ourselves and for life, we should learn to give up, but giving up should not be obsessed with anything. Give up a relationship that has long expired, give the person who is waiting to love you and yourself a chance; give up a job that even makes you feel depressed, ask yourself what you want to relax your tense nerves; give up a busy life, return to nature and give your body and mind a long vacation; give up the unhappiness that you cling to, and face every day of your life with a smile. Understand that giving up an unsuitable process is not cowardice, and escape is just to give life another interpretation.

5. Don’t put all your eggs in one basket

Don't put all your eggs in one basket. This is an old saying. In today's terms, it means to prepare for both situations! I'm talking about the economy here. We should have some adventurous spirit in life, but we should not sacrifice ourselves for the sake of taking risks. You can't just ask for good things without considering the other party's financial and personal strength. You have to be appropriate. Women should not put all their eggs in one basket when it comes to love, but should learn to give with reservation, whether in terms of love or money.

We make money to make our lives better, not to have men pay for us, nor to squander it for some unknown reason and then find excuses to ask men for money. We deliberately give men the opportunity to pay, but we should also allow both parties to get along on an equal footing. So women should learn to save money and learn to spend men's money.

6. Learn to say byebye beautifully!

Not everyone can turn around gracefully when a relationship comes to an end. No matter how strong a woman is, she will be as fragile as a child when she suffers a setback in love. Women often think they are very strong and will give 100% of their only love to the one they love, but in the end they find themselves trapped in memories and feeling sorry for themselves. Relationships should be based on a relatively equal position; extreme imbalance will lead to a bad ending for the relationship.

Women often focus too much attention on a man. Even if they know it is wrong, they will not turn back until they hit the wall. Even if they are succeeded, they will swallow the bitterness alone. They have all forgotten how a person who can't even take care of himself can take care of others, how a person who can't even love himself can love others and be loved by others, and how a person who can't even say goodbye to yesterday can have a bright future. Only by knowing when to advance and when to retreat, being tolerant, and cherishing can you get the most beautiful love in return.

7. Say NO like you say YES.

Women are always too soft-hearted. They are always hesitant when facing bad things and people, and they will get a bad reputation if they are not careful. When a woman is hesitant, the man who wants to get close to her will not dare to get close to her. The man who gets close to her will feel that there is no novelty, and unknowingly, the relationship will come to an end. Women should learn to reject men’s malicious approaches and learn to protect themselves with reasonable rejection.

When facing the person she likes, a woman always says YES and never thinks about the right and opportunity to say NO. In fact, it is very simple to refuse. You need to be calm and see whether this matter is a good thing or a bad thing for you, and then firmly say NO. The first time you open your mouth is a new beginning! In order to avoid losing value, women must learn to refuse!