Women should pay attention to the 7 things men expect from you in bed

Introduction: Although men are not overly picky about sex compared to women, there are still some details that you must pay attention to first, such as: what kind of action can make him climax for you again? If you take the initiative in sex, will anything change? Some details are often ignored by women, but they are precisely the core points that are enough to make men crazy about you.

Many people think that men are careless and don’t care about some details in life. In fact, not all men don’t care. Men either don’t care at all or they are more picky than women, especially when it comes to little things in bed.

When it comes to sex, women pay more attention to details. They are not like men who will ignore other small details as long as they can reach orgasm. In the face of lust, women pay more attention to emotion, while men pay more attention to desire.

Although compared with women, men are not overly picky about sex, there are still some details that you must pay attention to first, such as: what kind of action can make him give you another orgasm? If you take the initiative in sex, will anything change? Some details are often overlooked by women, but they are precisely the core points that are enough to make a man crazy about you. Men have things they care about in bed. If you can control these things, he will be firmly tied to you. What do men care about most in bed? Let’s take a look at the 7 major expectations men have of you in bed.

1. I hope she has a sense of humor

Some women do things in bed as if they were handing in homework, and have no sense of humor at all. In bed, besides being sexy, you can also be humorous because men care.

On this issue, men are divided into two camps, one group believes that it is very important, and the other group completely ignores it. The former believes that a humorous atmosphere can help ease awkward situations and that a little joke can spark love. It's not a bad thing to be a little clumsy in bed sometimes. Let's laugh together, not at you or me. How to define a woman's sense of humor? She can act ironically, get along well with men, and possess feminine charm. Being with such a person is always a pleasant sexual partnership.

The latter believes that sex is a work (or a dramatic event). For him, sex is a mood, and mood is a very important event, similar to a business behavior. He seldom spoke, whether in bed or out of it. In the midst of the passionate lovemaking in a drama, his behavior reminds you of a general performing his duties. So, as a woman, you tell him that there is a difference and you have to show your sense of humor.

2. Want her to have an orgasm

Some information shows that if a man finds that he cannot bring much pleasure to a woman, he will feel sad and even feel inferior and unable to raise his head. Even if he could enjoy a sumptuous banquet and watch wonderful football, he would not feel happy. As a woman, your enthusiasm and visible pleasure are the most essential things. But if a man doesn't understand or doesn't know how to take advantage of this, you will still be very depressed. You're going to say something like, everything you do is so wonderful, I don't think I can wait until nightfall. This will change the awkward situation and guide him to where you want to go.

Perhaps it is because women are also worried that they will not be able to reach orgasm and disappoint men, so many women will pretend to have an orgasm in bed to excite men. In fact, men are not stupid. They can tell whether your orgasm is real or fake. When a man knows you are pretending, he will be hit harder. There is no need to pretend in front of the one you are closest to. The two of you should communicate more deeply and see what postures can make you really fly and appear more effective.

3. I hope she wears something sexy in bed

Women dress to please themselves, and women dress beautifully just to get men to look at them more and pay more attention to them. Many women only pay attention to what they wear when going out on weekdays, and they dress very casually in bed or at home, which makes men lose desire when seeing them.

Who cares what she wears? It's always a secondary issue. A man said, and he expressed what most men are thinking. But whether the clothing is sexy can often affect how long the orgasm lasts. Duration is often a concern for men. If men are asked: Do you like it when you undress her if she's wearing something sexily? Most admit that they do. A man who didn't care much replied: It's fine with me either way, as long as she doesn't wear too much. There are indeed big differences of opinion on this issue, but it cannot be denied that clothing is a factor that cannot be ignored. Some men will become excited when looking at underwear and stockings. But once a man unbuttons your clothes and sees that worn-out underwear, his desire will probably disappear into thin air.

In bed or at home, dress sexily and you will find this is a great way to seduce men.

4. Hope she has a normal attitude towards sex

Generally speaking, women are reserved in their sexual attitudes. Even if they have desires, they dare not express them, for fear that men will accuse them of being promiscuous. In fact, men hope that women have a normal sexual attitude, and this factor is very important.

Sometimes men can be pleasantly surprised to find that women can be as crazy about sex as I am. Some women even have it harder than men. Some ladies said: Oh my God, I think about doing this all day long. She said that she had this impulse when she walked into the house and stepped on the carpet. Once she really did this, she would be infinitely affectionate, making the man passionate, and every move made the man feel just right.

A serious and stern-faced woman is definitely not good for sex, and men don't want to see a woman who is too unrestrained and crazy. Men think it is best for women to have a healthy and normal sexual attitude. The man said, I hope she can have sex with me with a little humanity, but it’s not entirely like that. Therefore, if a man is afraid of having sex, the reason is more likely to be the woman's attitude rather than the man's physiological problems.

Don't say that men don't care. In fact, men care about a lot of things, especially in bed, they care more. Do you know?

5. I hope you can be passionate about him

Nothing can increase passion more than expressing yourself properly in bed, and even the slightest hissing sound can be more arousing than making love in silence. Some men don't seem to care much about "sound" and "silent" sex. They think that the degree of your enthusiasm and passion for him is crucial. Yes, men all want women to be crazy about them. He would rather believe that it is him who makes you wet and makes you moan, rather than something of your own? The effect of sexual fantasy or any other situation. As a man, he wants to know what he can do to bring out the best in you. Sometimes even a seemingly insignificant word from you can make your sex life go smoothly.

Most men don't want to admit it, but on some issues, even some macho guys will weigh: Can I really please my partner in bed? However, sometimes the key to the problem is that women can and probably will move, rotate, push and pull during sex, so even the most confident men can't be sure whether you really like his way of making love. In fact, the more a woman can be passionate about a man's vigorous energy, the more she can reach the limit of pleasure under the guidance of a man.

6. Talk about private topics

Two people are lying on the bed. Because the environment is quiet and both of them are in a calm state of mind, chatting can achieve good results. If they talk about some private topics in bed, it will help to make their married life more harmonious.

Sex does not simply refer to the lovemaking between two people, but refers to the entire process from foreplay to the end. Many people drink some red wine and talk about some private topics during foreplay.

7. I hope you feel comfortable

First, your feeling of comfort will increase your sexual desire with him. Women need to relax and enjoy it as a delicacy, which is more beneficial than worrying about your performance.

Second, your own comfort means we all feel comfortable. Focusing too much on your flaws inevitably leads to focusing on your own body rather than ours. Covering ourselves under the covers will only make us both anxious about our sexuality, which will in turn affect the effectiveness of lovemaking. So, don't worry about whether you look perfect in bed. In fact, it doesn't matter whether you turn off the lights or not.

There are some details you must pay attention to, for example: what kind of action can make him orgasm for you again? If you take the initiative in sex, will anything change? Some details are often overlooked by women, but they are precisely the core points that are enough to make men crazy about you.