Will it be painful the first time?

Sex is our normal need. As we grow older, we begin to slowly come into contact with sex, and it is inevitable that we will have our first time. For many women, because of the existence of virgin touch, in their impression, the first time is very painful. When facing yourself for the first time, you often have a great psychological burden. So, will it be painful the first time? Let’s take a closer look below.

Will it hurt? How much does it hurt?

The first time the body is hit by a foreign object, it will naturally feel uncomfortable. In addition, when a girl's hymen is broken, there will be a slight pain. But this also varies from person to person, not everyone will feel pain. The reason why many girls are worried and afraid of pain is because of their own psychological shadows and imaginary symptoms. Even if it hurts, at most it feels like a mosquito bite, and it is fleeting, and then you will be surrounded by happiness and joy.

Overcome nervousness.

Think of sex as a beautiful enjoyment and a happy expectation. Don't concentrate all your attention on the pain. High mental tension will lead to stiffness of the whole body, which will backfire and cause pain to yourself. It's like when we go to the hospital for an injection. The tenser the muscles are, the more painful the needle injected into the muscle will be.

Cooperate with your boyfriend in foreplay.

Foreplay is a fusion of the two lovers in psychology, emotion, and body. It is an indispensable part before sex. It not only affects the success of the first sex, but also is the guarantee of the harmony of future sex. If the boy is inexperienced for the first time and is therefore panicked and flustered, it can also cause pain to the girl, so she should cooperate with her boyfriend in foreplay.

Guide your boyfriend.

Everyone's body sensitivity is different and varies in degree, so especially when it's the first time, the boyfriend won't be able to form a tacit understanding with the girl. If you feel your boyfriend touching a sensitive part of your body, you will feel hot and excited, and your body has an involuntary desire and need, then you should guide your boyfriend to touch your sensitive parts more often. When the time is right and he enters naturally, the pain will be reduced.

Straighten your posture.

When having sex for the first time, factors such as time, place, mood, and psychological tension may cause both parties to panic and rush into it, not to mention what posture to strike, which can also cause discomfort and pain to the girl. When girls have sex for the first time, they must lie flat, relax their minds, and spread their legs. This will allow the body to relax to the greatest extent, reduce resistance, and thus reduce pain.

Comfortable environment.

The environment can also affect your mood and physical response to sex. A warm, romantic and quiet environment will make people feel comfortable, relaxed and safe, thus making them happy, reducing psychological tension and numbing the feeling of body pain. Therefore, girls must choose a comfortable environment when doing it for the first time.