There is an essential difference between men and women in being lustful

Everyone has a love for beauty. Everyone has the right to pursue beautiful things, including the pursuit of sex. There is nothing wrong with pursuing sex, but if crimes are committed due to the pursuit of sex, it will be intolerable by society. I would like to appeal to everyone here not to have differences on the issue of sexual desire between men and women, and to treat their own sexual impulses and pursuits correctly.

The true nature of human beings is a famous saying left by the ancients, so lust is nothing but the release of one's nature. There is no essential difference between the nature of men and women. So what are the specific manifestations of men and women being lustful?

Men are lustful

Most men do not have any psychological burden due to their lust, and they can let go of it. Many men openly admit that they are lustful and even use it as a topic of joke.

Every man has a theory of lust, and young men often talk about sexy topics together without any taboos. In their minds, men's lust is a natural instinct.

Simply put, when a man sees a beautiful and sexy woman, it is easy for him to become lustful and have thoughts or desires to possess her.

It is a posture of desire and possession, and some even have wild fantasies. They may take pursuit actions, but most of the time it is not out of liking, but a desire to conquer and possess beautiful women.

Men's lust is very intuitive and they are not ashamed of it. Young men may even consider themselves bad guys and think it is cool. When men meet a beautiful woman, they will look at her lustfully. When they see the beautiful woman blushing and getting embarrassed, they will smile slyly and feel very happy about it. Men will whistle and wink at pretty women on the street, actively trying to attract their attention, and are very active and direct. Never hide anything.

Men's lust is mostly forgiven or taken for granted by the public.

Women are lustful

Most women are not as open as men. They have to face more pressure, the constraints of the remnants of Chinese feudal morality, the pressure of public opinion... Therefore, even if they are lustful in their hearts, they will not show it. Most people associate women's lust with being "romantic" and "debauched", so even if women have lustful thoughts, they will definitely hide them very deeply.

Women are different, when they see handsome and sexy men, they just think they are handsome or sexy, but most of them don’t have any further YY thoughts and remain “calm”. It is an attitude of appreciating and indulging in beauty. Some girls may become infatuated with such a man and dream of him pursuing them. The mind is in a passive state.

Women behave very passively. When a woman is pleased with a strange man, even if she is deeply moved by his beauty, she will conceal her expression imperceptibly, and at most give him a casual glance. In fact, in China's feudal society, women have always been in a passive position, whether in the pursuit of men and women or in their lives. A woman's lust is also a passive psychological state.

But women also have their own ways of expressing themselves. Coquettishness, anger, foolishness and stupidity are common expressions of women. This kind of lustful expression is the awakening of spring love, and it is also a psychological state under physiological instinct. Even in modern society, which is relatively open-minded, most women still cannot face the issue of lust, and are in a very passive state when men and women have sex. They don't want others to associate themselves with words like "dissolute" and "romantic", even though this is unfair.

Women who are lustful are generally not tolerated by the public and will be attacked by conservative ideas. It can only be understood by a very small number of enlightened people. To give a very simple example, when a man and a woman get married with a child, most people will not say what’s wrong with the man, but will mostly talk about what’s wrong with the woman.

For some people, it is an attitude of appreciation. Everyone has a love for beauty in beautiful things, and there is nothing wrong with that. However, it is intolerable to develop a criminal mentality due to lust. Both men and women have lustful psychology, but the social views they suffer because of this are unfair, so I urge everyone to look at it objectively, look at the problem squarely, and look at the issue of women's lust correctly.