7 psychological factors that steal women's happiness

Women are naturally meticulous and extremely sensitive to everything. They also like to compare, and as a result they always find that their lives are not satisfactory. But have you ever thought that this mentality is stealing your happiness?

1. Not good at finding the sunny side

There are many positive and good aspects in life, but many people ignore them. "Only seeing their own misfortune and ignoring their own happiness" and "magnifying the happiness of others and minimizing their own happiness" are true portrayals of this.

In order to attract attention, some media also hype up negative events in life. Although it satisfies people's curiosity to a certain extent, it also weakens people's positive attitude.

2. Lack of faith

After more than 20 years of sprint-like race for wealth, some people don’t know what their goals and pursuits in life are other than making money, and they don’t even know what they really want. This state of lack of faith and ideals makes it difficult to produce lasting and happy happiness.

3. Always love to compare

Modern people devote their main energy to competition, comparing positions, houses, wealth... After comparing again and again, people's hearts are left with only desire, not happiness. Once people pursue not how to be happy, but how to be happier than others, happiness will be far away from you.

4. Not knowing how to make sacrifices

A study by Harvard University in the United States once showed that helping others more in life can make you feel happier. But in modern society, there are fewer and fewer people willing to make selfless contributions, and more and more people who are petty. If you always calculate "what can I get from it" and "is it worth doing this", you will live a miserable life.

5. Not content

As the saying goes, "Contentment is the greatest happiness", but there are fewer and fewer people who can be content. When they have a house, they want to buy a bigger one; when they have a job, they want to buy a better one; when they have money, they want to earn more... These desires drive people to work hard endlessly, and strive to reach the peak of "glory".

6. Mutual distrust

Although communication in society is highly developed, people's hearts are gradually becoming alienated. Nowadays, people are more and more inclined to the "right brain" thinking mode. The right brain controls individuals, power, status, etc., and has zero sensitivity to happiness. The sense of happiness comes from the feelings of the left brain. Many times it is not that there is less happiness in life, but that people no longer have the ability to feel happiness.

7. Being too anxious

Issues such as buying a house, raising children, and family pension burden; work pressure caused by concerns about career advancement opportunities; and dealing with interpersonal relationships between friends and colleagues have all become "sources of stress" for the Chinese. In big cities, whether old, young or children, most people are in a state of irritability and anxiety, which makes it impossible for people to feel happy from the bottom of their hearts.