7 details to verify your position in his heart

The following seven small things are often encountered in life. By comparing them, you will know whether the man is doing well enough. Of course, if he doesn’t do it well the first time, it is best to remind him seriously. Men are sometimes a little stupid. But if he fails to do it well several times in a row, dear sisters, you have to use your brains and think about it carefully.

The first one, after suffering a minor accidental injury

For example, if you accidentally cut your hand while cutting vegetables, or if you stepped on empty air and fell, I believe every man would care more when such a situation happens. The representative of the love department reminds you to observe his behavior two or three days after the incident: Does he still remember to comfort you? Does he still look distressed? If the wound has not healed yet and he has already forgotten the matter, then his love is more verbal than in his heart.

Second, the performance of the phone before it runs out of power

When you are out, it is inevitable that your phone will run out of battery. This is the time that you can best see how much a man loves you. If he really cares about your feelings and is afraid that you worry and care about him, he will use the remaining power to make a call or send a text message to tell you: "My phone is out of battery, I'm here and there!" Or he will use a friend's phone to call you to reassure you. If he didn't think about you at all before his phone ran out of battery, and you foolishly didn't sleep well all night, this seems unreliable.

The third thing is to listen to your opinion before making a decision

This decision includes a lot of things, from big things like the location of buying a house to small things like where to take friends for dinner in the evening. A man who respects women's opinions is a man who knows how to love. Moreover, habits are very important in love. If he can always discuss big and small things with you at the beginning, it is very likely that he will do the same when you get married in the future.

Fourth, the attitude towards the ex-girlfriend

This is actually very difficult to judge. Every woman hopes that the man in front of her belongs to her completely, but almost all men will be friendly to their ex-girlfriends. A smart man may compare in his mind, while a dumb man may say it directly. Regarding this matter, I think it's okay for them to be friendly as long as they don't cross the line. Of course, it's best to ask him not to mention his ex-girlfriend in front of you. If he can't help but talk about it often, it only means that he thinks you are more suitable for him than his ex-girlfriend.

Fifth, be patient with your parents

There are two kinds of patience towards parents. One is false patience. The child may seem polite, but if you really ask him to spend time with you, he will find excuses! The other is true patience, which means that he has your family in his heart and is willing to accompany them. Remember, accompanying your family is much more difficult than accompanying yourself, and this process is the focus of the test. Especially when his parents are in poor health, you can tell from his behavior whether he really loves you and your family. If he does, he will not be afraid of getting dirty or tired, and may even treat him better than his own parents.

Sixth, take care of your body

I think sending a text message every morning: "The weather is dry, drink more water!" or "It's cold, put on more clothes!" is more important than sending a formulaic "I love you". Without the love and meticulous care for your body, this love is almost tasteless!

Seventh, make yourself ugly once to test him

I have a girlfriend who is very beautiful. One day, a white spot grew on her arm and the hospital suspected it was vitiligo. During that time, her boyfriend began to ignore her. He didn't give her comfort when she needed it the most, which broke her heart. The final result was that the illness was just a false alarm, but love became a thing of the past. If you want, you can meet him one day in a sloppy state and see if he reacts with disappointment.

Love is always at hand. Pick it up or put it down. It depends on how much the person in front of you deserves your action!

Most women have three criteria for choosing boyfriends: they don’t choose rich people, they only choose talented ones; they don’t choose those with good family backgrounds, they only choose those who love them; they don’t choose those who are successful in their careers, they only choose those who make them feel safe. This standard is actually correct. But this standard is also what causes girls to meet the wrong people. Because even though there are standards, girls don’t know what kind of people meet the standards.