The longer the better?

Human sexual behavior is an extremely complex physiological and psychological process. The duration of an intercourse varies greatly among different couples, and only a very small number of people can last more than half an hour in an intercourse. What I want to tell you is that the duration of a sexual intercourse is not important. The key is the sexual feelings of both parties. As long as both parties can get sexual excitement, satisfaction and pleasure, it is a perfect sex life. No sexologist has ever dictated how long sexual intercourse should last. For some couples, sexual intercourse lasts only one minute and both parties feel very good and satisfied, while for other couples, it may last for several minutes or even more than ten minutes before they feel satisfied. This is an individual difference, and there is no need to force uniformity. Many men measure their sexual ability by "time", but in fact, the quality of sex life is more important.

According to a survey, the average sexual intercourse time for men is 2 to 3 minutes. But it cannot be assumed that less than this time means premature ejaculation. Because every couple has different sexual habits, the timing of their sexual intercourse varies at different ages. Newly married couples and couples who have reunited after a short separation will ejaculate prematurely during their first sexual intercourse. This is considered a normal physiological phenomenon and cannot be considered premature ejaculation. In terms of time, it is normal for the penis to ejaculate 2 minutes after being inserted into the vagina. Therefore, some sexologists have set two standards for whether the duration of sexual intercourse is normal or not: First, from a medical point of view, it is normal if it can last for more than 2 minutes or have more than 16 thrusts. Another standard is to compare oneself with oneself. For example, if one used to be able to last for half an hour, but suddenly the limit drops to 5 minutes, then that is abnormal.

Multiple factors affect "time"

So, what factors affect the duration of a sexual intercourse? One is related to the physical constitution of both parties. Sexual intercourse is a strenuous whole-body exercise, especially for men, which requires them to exert more physical strength. Therefore, men with good physical fitness can maintain it longer, while men with poor physical fitness can maintain it shorter. The second is related to the intensity of sexual desire of both parties. Generally speaking, the intensity of sexual desire is inversely proportional to the duration of sexual intercourse. If the sexual desire of both parties is not sufficient or one party is barely coping, then sexual intercourse cannot proceed or lasts for a long time. The third is related to the psychological atmosphere of both parties. Sexual intercourse must be carried out in an atmosphere of love. If you are in a bad mood, rush into sex right after an argument, or one party is thinking about other things and cannot concentrate, then the duration of sexual intercourse will also be affected. Fourth, it is related to the artistic level of sexual intercourse of both parties. If both parties can frankly explore and summarize the practical experience and lessons of success and failure in sexual life, they will be able to grasp the characteristics of each other, control them with artificial consciousness, prolong the duration of sexual intercourse, and improve the quality of sex life.

In addition, there is the factor of habit when it comes to timing. Some husbands are very impatient and like to finish things quickly; some like to show off and enjoy things slowly. Psychologically, there is already a "time difference" between them. However, when men chat together, they like to use this as a basis for "conquering" and "dominating". In other words, the longer the sexual intercourse time and the more times it occurs, the more it proves that he is capable of conquering a woman and making her reach orgasm. In fact, this is a huge misunderstanding. If this point of view is used to maintain the relationship and sexual intercourse between husband and wife, then the quality of their sexual life will be meaningless.