9 secret relationships behind male and female behavior

If a man often buys breakfast for a woman, but the woman never buys breakfast for the man, then the relationship between the two is no longer just acquaintances. If the man is not the woman's junior or younger, then it is certain that there is another invisible factor controlling this behavior. For example, a man and a woman have an ambiguous relationship, and in this relationship, the man is the active one, while the woman is the psychologically dominant one.

1. Men and women often stay together, but pretend to be calm when they are around acquaintances.

The above situation definitely means that the man and woman are already in a lover relationship, and they are not normal lovers, but an extramarital affair or something like that. Because if you are friends, there is no need to avoid others, and if you are a normal couple, there is no need to pretend to be strangers. Only if they are extramarital lovers and cannot control themselves from meeting each other frequently, but when they meet other acquaintances, they have to find excuses, and when they meet outsiders, they have to pretend that their relationship is very ordinary.

2. Men offer to help women in public

For example, when you see a woman talking to her acquaintances about something troublesome and difficult, the man next to her takes the initiative to interrupt and say that he has some connections or channels, or knows someone, or has some special way to solve the problem. In this situation, men tend to please, but it is certain that the relationship between men and women will not be very close. Because if it is an intimate relationship, a woman will definitely understand the other person's situation and will ask the other person for help in private.

3. Men and women are not married, but they often quarrel with each other

Both the man and the woman were angry with each other and ignored each other. This not only shows that the relationship between men and women has become deeper, but also shows that there has been a long emotional relationship between men and women. At the beginning of a relationship, men and women generally don't get angry often. Both sides care about each other's feelings. But when the relationship has a certain depth, one party has given more to the other, and will also have more demands and requests. As a result, they have more capital to get angry, and it will be easier to get angry.

4. Women can casually lecture men in public.

If a woman and a man are not lovers or any other relatives, the woman can casually speak to the man in a lecturing tone in public, and the man will show surprising magnanimity and at most say a few words of impatience. That must mean that the man and woman had been having an affair for some purpose, and even had physical contact.

5. Women say bad things about men sexually behind their backs

Women talk bad about men behind their backs and talk about their sexual privacy. That means the man has a grudge against the woman, or the man did something to the woman. Or maybe there was an affair in the past, but now it has deteriorated.

6. Women invite men to dinner

When a woman invites a man to dinner, it is either because she owes him something, because she admires him, or because she wants something from him. If all of the above reasons are true, then it is even more likely. If a woman invites a man to dinner but is very polite or always trying to please him, she must be asking something of him. When a man and a woman do not have a sexual relationship, the woman may invite the man to dinner for other reasons, but after the woman and the man have had sex and developed feelings for each other, the woman may cook for the man at home, and it is usually the man who invites the man out.

7. Women and men walk together openly and act close to each other

In this case, the relationship between the woman and the man is clear, but at most it is a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship. Especially when men and women appreciate each other and are compatible but have not really started their emotional journey, they may seem very affectionate, but they will be very open and frank with each other when they are together. Between men and women, except for normal couples, before they fall in love, they will show a tendency to get together. But when they are really sticking to each other, they will take the initiative to separate in public.

8. A man gives a woman roses in front of everyone

Perhaps, some people would think that this must be something that only a husband and wife would dare to do. In fact, this is not the case. It is very likely that the man and woman are open lovers. It is rare for a couple to send flowers to each other. It is very likely when a man starts to pursue a woman, but the chances are much lower after marriage. A man will only think of sending flowers if he feels he owes a woman too much. But for lovers, sending flowers is a form of flattery and it is cheap.

9. A woman and a man walk one in front of the other, keeping a distance between them.

If this happens once or twice, perhaps people will stop associating these two people together. But if this way of walking one in front and one behind is repeated many times, it can explain the special relationship between the man and the woman, and that they have to be wary of acquaintances.