Women should not offend men's 6 explosive points

Men are always tall and mighty in women's minds, but they don't know that men are sometimes fragile animals. They release their emotions when they are at low points, and they long to be embraced, understood, and accepted. At this time they were like lost lambs, panicked, full of fear and sadness. So women, if you see your male friends experiencing something like this, you should take the initiative to comfort them, encourage them, and listen to them. The most important thing is not to trigger these original starting points:

1. Don’t call a man frequently to urge him to go home when he is socializing.

Men's social activities basically revolve around two aspects. One is to pave the way for career, and the other is to pave the way for relaxation. For this reason, when men are socializing, they frequently receive urging calls from their wives. Men know that it is concern, but they feel embarrassed in front of their friends. A smart man will inform his wife in advance before socializing, and a smart woman will send a greeting text message when her husband comes home late.

2. Don’t ask questions when a man is upset

When a man is upset, he doesn't like to talk, but prefers absolute silence. However, out of curiosity and concern, women often like to get to the bottom of things when men are upset. This not only fails to show real concern, but makes men even more upset, and usually ends in a quarrel between the couple. For this reason, smart women will often stay by their men's side quietly when they are upset, and be a qualified listener rather than an interrogator at any time.

3. Don’t expose a man’s shortcomings or embarrassing moments in front of his friends and family.

Everyone has funny pasts and shortcomings. The reason why they are defenseless in front of their families is because men feel there is no need to pretend in front of their families. However, in front of outsiders, men will occasionally put on a common face and pretend to be rich. At this time, as a wife, don't expose the truth about men, and don't think that your husband is hypocritical, because living in a social environment where "dogs look down on people", sometimes pretending to be strong can also buy yourself some opportunities.

4. Don’t force a man to have sex with you when he is physically tired

Men are not as lustful as women, but they definitely desire sex more than women. However, men sometimes find themselves unable to do what they want. When a man is so tired from work that he doesn't even want to talk, as his wife, please don't force him to have sex. Not only will you be easily rejected by the man, but you may also force the woman to say something like "you're useless" in anger, which will greatly hurt the man's vitality.

5. Don’t frequently criticize a man’s parents and siblings.

A man can occasionally complain about his parents or siblings not being helpful, but as a wife, you should not agree with him, and you should not take the initiative to criticize his parents or siblings. Family affection will become much weaker with the establishment of a new family, but at the critical moment, family affection will erupt with unimaginable power. Put yourself in his shoes. How would you feel if your husband frequently complained about your parents and siblings in front of you?

6. Don’t frequently search a man’s pockets or peek at his phone

Men's pockets usually contain mobile phones, pocket money, cigarettes, and lighters. Even so, women should not touch men's pockets easily, because in the eyes of men, men's pockets represent dignity and trust. Women frequently checking men's pockets is equivalent to tearing apart men's dignity and destroying the trust between husband and wife. There will be some text messages in a man’s mobile phone that seem ambiguous but are not actually ambiguous. A woman’s peeping will not only cause trouble for herself, but also make the man feel that she is being unreasonable. I dare to ask, if a man cheats, can you stop him by reading his text messages?

If your boyfriend or male friend loses his temper from time to time, don't blame them or argue with them. We should first see if we have done anything to anger him. If not, then maybe they have encountered something. At this time, we should not ask them about the root cause, but give them time to calm down and comfort them appropriately. He will also be grateful for your understanding and love you even more.