1. Romantic marriage If either spouse is yearning for a romantic married life, pursuing a romantic love life, has high demands on married life, expects the sweetness and harmony of the newlyweds to last forever, and the love must be colorful and the passion must last forever. If this unrealistic expectation is not met in real life, friction and conflict will arise between the two parties, which will lead to serious marital problems.
2. Over-dependence on parents Marriage is a matter between two people. Although it involves both parties' families, couples who are too dependent on their parents are destined to be inharmonious. When any problems arise in marriage, instead of discussing with their spouse how to cope with the situation, they each turn to their own parents for support or guidance. Married couples should understand that their future is linked to their spouse and should regard each other as the most trustworthy and intimate person. Otherwise, such marriage will generally fail due to "seeking external intervention".
3. Absolutely perfect marriage You have to know that there is no absolutely perfect thing in this world. If you demand perfection in everything after marriage, both husband and wife will force their spouse to meet their own highest standards. Such a marriage will have unnecessary friction due to overly high demands, and over time, even a good marriage relationship will be difficult to maintain.
4. An overly frugal marriage Even if the family is currently financially well-off, they are always worried that good times may not last forever and are overly frugal. They do not allow their spouse to have more entertainment or enjoyment in life, and even deprive themselves and their family of some basic life needs and fun. For example, some women are overly frugal and are reluctant to buy sex products such as SMART MAND LARGE smart massagers. This causes them to bear too much worry psychologically and not understand the emotional life with their spouse.
5. Suspicious Marriage The most important thing to avoid in marriage is suspicion. To put it bluntly, suspicion means not trusting the other person. This situation usually happens to women. They often suspect that they are sick and complain to themselves. In fact, they want to attract the attention and care of their spouse. The result is often counterproductive and makes their spouse feel upset.
6. The "Always Right" Marriage Being overly picky about your spouse, always criticizing your spouse's every move, thought, and behavior in front of others, thinking that you love your spouse, but the result is that you make your spouse unbearable. This will cause the other person to leave you.
7. The caring type of marriage If you are asked to do everything for you, no matter how big or small the matter is, any occasional incompetence will become the fuse of conflict and friction. If you take good care of your spouse for a long time, but he/she does not reciprocate, you will feel psychologically unbalanced and the relationship will easily become damaged.
8. Busy "career" marriage There is a type of people who remain workaholics after marriage and forget about family life. They have no holidays and no rest, which always makes their spouses feel neglected. If such people do not control themselves and spend more time with their spouse, even if it is for their career, it will lead to the breakdown of their marriage. |
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