There are so many little secrets in the matching between men and women

The love expressed by people of different emotional types, men and women, has its own characteristics. If the love expressed by one party happens to be the love that the other party can accept most, or the love that is most needed and most suitable for a certain emotional type is the love that the other emotional type is best at expressing, they will feel a tacit understanding, a fit with family love, a substitute, and naturally there will be a kind of family love between each other. The higher the degree of love expressed and accepted between two people, and the more similar the two parties expressing love are to their respective relatives in terms of body shape, appearance, behavior, temperament, and even language (voice) and concepts, the higher the degree of harmony of family love, and different degrees of "love at first sight" will appear in real life.

Grandfather-type men are best at expressing their grandfather's familial love, which is what they need and accept the most for granddaughter-type women who have feelings for their grandfather. Granddaughters' respect, dependence, gentleness, and willfulness for their grandfather are what grandfather-type men need and accept the most. The love expressed and accepted between them is the most compatible, so the match between grandfather-type men and granddaughter-type women should be the best choice.

Father-type men are best at expressing fatherly love, which is what daughter-type women who have Oedipus complex need and accept the most. A daughter's admiration, dependence, gentleness, and willfulness for her father are what father-type men need and accept the most. The love expressed and accepted between them is the most compatible, so the match between father-type men and daughter-type women should be the best choice.

Brother-type men are best at expressing brotherly love, which is what sister-type women need and accept the most. The respect and dependence of sisters on their brothers, and the security, care and love they give to their brothers can be said to be what they need and accept the most. The love expressed and accepted between them is the most compatible. The cooperation between brother-sister type men and women may be slightly inferior to that between father and daughter type in terms of the intensity of their family affection.

Brother-type men express more of their familial love for their sisters. For sister-type ladies who have a brother-love relationship, this is the most needed and accepted kind of familial love. The brother's respect, closeness, and emotional dependence on his sister in life, and the sister's pity, care, and careful attention to her brother, allow them to each get what they need, and the love expressed and the love accepted are completely in line. The sister-brother type cooperation is no less than the brother-sister type cooperation in terms of familial love. However, affected by the dominant male culture and the different psychological characteristics of men and women, the sister-brother type cooperation is inferior to the brother-sister type cooperation, and the sexual and romantic love of both parties cannot reach the highest point.

Son-type men are best at expressing the son's familial love for the mother. For mother-type women who have a son-loving relationship, this is the most needed and accepted kind of familial love. The son's respect, dependence, love, and willfulness for the mother, especially the primitive love for the mother that has developed in infancy and has a long-term impact, the mother's meticulous care, love, and earnest teachings for her son, the one-way maternal love that does not seek returns, make both parties feel deeply satisfied, the love expressed and the love accepted are completely in line, the mother-son type cooperates, and the familial love is strong, but affected by the taboo of incest and the interference of the male-dominant culture and the different psychological characteristics of men and women, the sexual love and romantic love of both parties in the mother-son type cannot be sublimated to the highest level.

Grandson-type men are best at expressing the grandson's kinship love for the grandmother. For grandmother-type women who have a grandson-loving affection, this is the most needed and accepted kind of kinship love. The grandson's respect, dependence, love, and willfulness for the grandmother, the grandmother's meticulous care, love, and earnest teachings for the grandson, and the grandmother's one-way love without expecting anything in return, make both parties feel deeply satisfied. The love expressed and the love accepted are completely in line. The grandmother and grandson type cooperate, and the kinship love is strong.

The expression of familial love by husband-lover type men is generalized and bland, and they express more equal friendship or romantic love, with no or less familial love as a foundation. When the two get along, they often lack trust in each other and have a strong sense of insecurity. It takes a considerable amount of time for them to get to know each other better and deepen their friendship love with wife type women, and they also need to gradually cultivate a strong sexual foundation and constantly sublimate their romantic love before they can establish a relatively stable husband-wife relationship. The cooperation between the husband-lovers and wife-lovers lacks family love, has insufficient cohesion, and is highly alert, so it takes a long time to establish a stable relationship between the couple.

The above are the most typical coordination patterns for each emotional type of men and women. Each emotional type can be cross-coordinated. The quality of cross-coordination depends on the degree of mutual expression and acceptance of family love. The higher the degree of fit, the more reasonable the coordination is; the lower the degree of fit, the less reasonable the coordination is. Scientific mate selection always prays for the highest degree of fit and tries to avoid the lowest degree of fit.