Love can't be lazy. 4 secrets to keep love fresh forever

People will not necessarily die immediately without love, but they will live a more beautiful and fulfilling life with love. However, love has a shelf life. How can we keep love fresh forever? This question varies from person to person. Generally speaking, if you want to keep love fresh forever, both parties in love need to work hard to manage and care for it. Love cannot be slack. There is no bad love in this world, only lazy love. Once people become too lazy in love and do not pay attention to the maintenance and management of love, then this love will naturally wither and die. Generally speaking, the secret to keeping love fresh forever mainly includes the following four aspects.

1. Be brave enough to take responsibility for love.

It is undeniable that love comes with responsibility. You must choose your own position in love, you must be that interesting screw, otherwise you will be swallowed up by the machine of love. Love is like a river. It may have beautiful scenery, but it is more likely to encounter stormy waves. The partner you need is preferably someone who can stand shoulder to shoulder with you on the bow of the boat, humming softly about the scenery on both sides of the river, and at the same time hold your hand tightly in the stormy waves. In other words, it's best if this person isn't the storm you have to deal with.

2. Be positive about love but not deliberate.

The secret to keeping love fresh is actually very simple, namely: be positive but not deliberately pretentious, make love a little "bitter", laugh with friends, have clear life goals, spend more time with the one you love, slow down the pace of life, and find a sense of belonging. In love, it is easy to commit to someone physically, but difficult to commit to someone's heart. No wonder an important lesson for emperors in ancient and modern times is "He who wins the hearts of the people wins the world." Similarly, in love, if you want to keep love fresh forever, the most important prerequisite is that the two people in love always love each other.

Love is something we need and should cherish at all times and in all places. I have done my best, and if I cannot achieve my goal, I will have no regrets. When you recall on a leisurely afternoon several years later the efforts and sacrifices you have made for love, the persistence and dedication you have made for love, the sweat and tears you have shed for love, how moved and fortunate you will be, how gratified and respectful you will be.

3. Know how to release the pressure of love.

Love is inevitably filled with various pressures. When love is invaded by pressure, the freshness of love will be greatly reduced. Therefore, if you want to keep love fresh forever, you must know how to release the pressure of love. The pressure to keep love fresh usually does not come from a heavy life, but from one's own lack of ability to relieve stress. The lack of ability to relieve stress is simply due to the inability to trust loved ones, being picky yet claiming to be a perfectionist; and always making simple things too complicated.

Love does not create ripples, love will light up your mast. As long as you step into the galaxy of love, love will naturally spread a fresh sail. Life is like a long journey with a heavy load, so one should not be impatient for success. When love is subject to constraints as a normal thing, there will be no dissatisfaction.

4. Maintain appropriate distance and space.

In love, one should always think about poverty so as to avoid greed. Patience is the cornerstone of keeping love fresh. Anger is the natural enemy of keeping love fresh. In love, if one only knows how to win but not how to lose, he will surely harm himself. Always reflect on your own mistakes and don't criticize others. What is insufficient can be remedied, but what is excessive cannot be saved. These are the only things each of us can do and likes to do.

If we can feel our unique existence through these things throughout our lives, our life will be extremely satisfying. Loneliness is the most authentic state of existence of love. The loneliness in love is significant - it is climbing a high building alone, it is on the edge of the desert, it is being drunk under a single lamp at night, it is being alone late at night, it is also being under a small bridge and flowing water. Love is in the world of you and me, and it is like a prison made of lines drawn on the ground. Our longing and struggle is a kind of inertia, which is related to love and has nothing to do with love. In love, maintaining an appropriate distance and independent space from each other is the secret to keeping love fresh forever.