5 reasons why men ask for intimacy before marriage

I have always believed that men who have never experienced sexual intercourse are generally not mature. Because they cannot feel from some details and exchanges how women should be caressed by men, this caressing is doable and not doable, it is debauchery and patience, it is gentleness and barbarity...

It is understandable that most men ask for sex before marriage, but the specific situation needs to be analyzed specifically. Generally speaking, there are no more than the following five reasons why men ask for sex before marriage:

First, determine whether the other party is a virgin.

In modern society, although virginity is not a compliment, almost every man hopes to marry a virgin, and there are still many men who have a virginity complex. Based on this complex, in order to ensure that they can find a virgin to take home, some men will rack their brains and ask to "test it out with their own body" regardless of the woman's repeated opposition and rejection.

If the test result shows that the other party is a virgin, everyone will be happy and all worries before getting married will be dispelled; if the test result shows that the other party is not a virgin, then they can make other plans and even avoid breaking up. In short, they are unwilling to take any risk by marrying a non-virgin. The more open the society is and the fewer virgins there are, the more they want to take this "reassurance pill".

Our view on this is that perhaps men’s obsession with virginity is understandable and even worthy of pity. However, it is extremely sad and shameless to disregard the woman's feelings, to use one's own narrow-mindedness to harm others for personal gain, or even to engage in despicable conspiracy.

Second, I was so excited that I couldn't wait.

I have always believed that men who have never experienced sexual intercourse are generally not mature. Because they cannot feel and communicate some details about how women should be caressed by men, they know that this caressing can be both doable and undoable, can be both wanton and patient, can be both gentle and barbaric.

As for a woman who has not married you and has not yet made up her mind or is unwilling to give her body to you, perhaps all you can do is caress, understand and be patient.

In our opinion, if this is achieved, it is more of a kind of love. It is this kind of love that makes them rational, able to suppress their immediate interest, eager but able to wait, and able to balance desire and responsibility. The maturity that comes after this is far more reliable, long-lasting and powerful than the maturity gained through sexual behavior alone.

Third, I think that only by giving it to him can I really love him.

To be honest, I still can't understand this perverse logic that is popular on the Internet - if you love him, give it to him. So I can't help but ask: Does a woman have to give her body to a man if she wants to have an orgasm, and this giving must be before marriage, before he can't give her any protection at all? I think this statement is neither logical nor moral, right? There is no love without reason in the world, and there is no giving without reason.

Any effort you make is only reliable if you are willing to do it, and it is real only if it happens naturally. Otherwise, anything imposed or spurious is immoral and ridiculous.

Here, I want to say to all the men who hold this idea: If you really love her and want to get her, then treat her well, treat her with your heart, solve all her worries, dispel any concerns in her heart, let her be willing, and give herself to you without hesitation.

Fourth, check the sexual harmony after marriage

In real life, although there seem to be many reasons for the failure of a marriage, more than half of them are related to the lack of harmony in sexual climax life. So, from this perspective, I am not really against men asking for premarital sex. It is a pity that there are not many men in real life who can have such thoughts completely and simply. They may pay more attention to their own pleasure during sexual intercourse. As for whether women can get happiness, they often do not bother to consider it. Their so-called test of sexual harmony after marriage is mostly based on personal feelings.

Of course, it must be pointed out that the harmony of the sexual climax life of a man and a woman cannot be simply verified from a short-term cohabitation before marriage. Since everyone has different physiological cycles, and living environment and work pressure are constantly changing, the most important thing is that sexual techniques can mostly make up for the disharmony. Therefore, although this reason is not without reason, it is mostly just an excuse.

Fifth, it is only for desire, not love at all

As for the last reason, I don’t want to talk about it in detail, because it does not even have the slightest technical content. To put it bluntly, it is to play with women and use marriage as bait to trick you into going to bed with him. As for the love that frequently comes out of the mouths of these men, it is simply laughable. It not only contaminates the environment, but also defiles the Holy Spirit. If women believe these lies, they can only blame themselves.