The real purpose of men asking for cohabitation: sex or marriage

The phenomenon of cohabitation before marriage has become very common in contemporary society. What is the purpose of cohabitation? Perhaps most women regard cohabitation as a prelude to marriage, but men's purpose of choosing cohabitation is not necessarily for marriage. Some men choose to live together simply for the convenience of having sex. Generally speaking, there are two main purposes for cohabitation.

Cohabitation Purpose 1: Working towards marriage

The vast majority of women and some men choose to live together as a preparation for marriage. After living together for a period of time, everyone will have a deeper understanding of each other's living habits and hobbies, and will be able to adjust to a harmonious state in terms of sex life. Moreover, they will be well aware of each other's small shortcomings exposed at close range, but when it will not affect the love between the two, they can prepare to get married and spend the rest of their lives together.

Cohabitation purpose 2: To facilitate sex

Living together for the purpose of having sex may be the purpose of some men. Of course, it is not ruled out that some women also have such an idea. For those who have no plans to get married, if they want to satisfy their physical needs, what could be more economical and safer than finding someone to live with?

It would be tragic if a woman who wanted to get married met a man with whom she lived for sex. Because such men do not consider themselves despicable, they may think that satisfying physical needs is the need of both parties, and often when living together, they will not make any commitments, it is just a matter of one willing to fight and the other willing to be beaten.

Advice to women about cohabitation: Women must think carefully before choosing to live together. If the man does not give a commitment, you must protect yourself during the days of cohabitation. When having sex, no matter how reluctant he is, you must make him wear a condom, and choose a good brand, such as Durex, to ensure the contraceptive effect and better protect yourself. In fact, even if there is a promise, there is a possibility of change. In short, it is right to protect yourself.