Ten stupid things women should not do before marriage

Perhaps what the world lacks most is a pill of regret. Every time we search for a long time and finally find someone to spend the rest of our lives with, as time goes by, we will find one thing or another that is not satisfactory. Although I know in my heart that "I will suffer the consequences if I don't listen to the advice of the elderly", I still have no regrets and "I won't turn back until I hit the wall!" The following precepts are for reference by sisters who are in love!

First commandment: Don’t let your in-laws meet too early

I thought that it would be a good thing for both sides' parents to get closer when they meet. In fact, this is a huge mistake. After getting to know each other, misunderstandings will gradually arise due to different living habits. In serious cases, no one will be able to stand each other, and in the end you will be the one who is in trouble. The best thing is to get married, and the two families should meet again, and keep it polite! It is best to meet less after marriage! As the saying goes: "Distance makes beauty!"

Second commandment: Don’t develop a shopping preference for your future in-laws

You can’t be too fond of buying things for your mother-in-law and father-in-law during festivals before the wedding, but when you go home, don’t make any demands on your husband.

If you do this for a long time, your husband will gradually get used to thinking that it is normal to buy things for his mom and dad, and will form the idea that a girl should focus on her husband's family when she gets married. I suggest buying gifts for each family during holidays, so that it will be easier after marriage if you develop the habit.

The third commandment: Don’t be too enthusiastic about taking on the housework of your husband’s family before marriage

Don't take the initiative to cook, wash clothes, and do laundry for your husband before you get married. Girls should maintain a certain degree of reserve, otherwise your mother-in-law will think that you care about her son or her family! Do some things appropriately, but don't be too involved.

The fourth commandment: Don’t talk too much about your own family at your husband’s house.

Even if the speaker is unintentional, the listener may take it to heart. Don't talk to your mother-in-law about your family matters. If you feel bored, talk about TV dramas or current affairs. The less your in-laws know about your family affairs, the better! Especially if you have sisters and brothers, who your parents bought a house for, who bought a car for, etc.! In the future, when you buy a house or a car, your mother-in-law will pay attention to whether you have received financial support from your parents.

Fifth commandment: Don’t meet your in-laws too early

I think you guys are okay to meet again. After meeting him, don't stay at your in-laws' house all day long, otherwise they will think you care too much about their son's relationship. Girls should be reserved when necessary.

The Sixth Commandment: Never Stay Overnight at Your Husband’s Home Before Marriage

Spending the night at the husband's house too early is just as bad as the third commandment.

Seventh commandment: Having sex before marriage and being known by the in-laws

Need I explain the reason? Let your in-laws look down on you! If you meet a troublesome mother-in-law, you are doomed.

The Eighth Commandment: Spend New Year’s Eve at Your Husband’s House

There is plenty of time after marriage, so spend more time with your parents now! The reason is the same as the third commandment

Ninth Commandment: Learn to Say “No”

When your mother-in-law is rude to you or your family in words or actions, or makes unreasonable demands, stop her and refuse her politely in a timely manner! Don't just tolerate or avoid her. Do you understand what is worse than worse? Of course, you should be civilized and polite! Maintain the demeanor of a lady! Neither humble nor overbearing

Tenth Commandment: Spending Too Much Money on Your Husband’s Family Before Marriage

You have a long life to live, if you give him all at once, what about in the future? For example: this time your uncle has no money to go to college, so you sponsor him 1,800 yuan. Next time your aunt has something to do, and you give less, you will be in trouble. So it is best to maintain a steady pace of development

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