How to know his attitude towards you after marriage

When you travel to a strange place, you are testing his ability to survive, his IQ and ability to take action when faced with emergencies, and most importantly, his true tolerance for you - this is actually an early preview of his attitude towards you after you have been married for a few years. A person who claims to love you, after you have become very familiar with each other, treats you during travel in a way that is roughly the same as his attitude toward you after marriage.

To see whether a singer is really talented, you have to look at his/her records and see whether he/she dares to hide his/her voice behind instrumental music.

To see whether a person is truly calling for equality and people's livelihood, we have to see how he behaves when others do not give him special treatment.

To see clearly whether a person is a beauty, don’t look at the photo, throw her into the swimming pool. (But now all cosmetics are waterproof)

To tell clearly whether a person is your friend, don’t look at how much he flatters you online or in public.

To tell whether a person is a good friend or not, you need to look at his or her behavior after something happens to you.

To tell whether a person is a close friend or not, you need to see whether their status changes after a financial relationship is established.

To see clearly whether a person loves you, don’t listen to what he/she says. It is said that men are visual animals and women are auditory animals.

It takes some details to see whether a person is suitable for you to start a family with.

Once, I went to eat lamb ribs with Zuo Xiaozuo and his wife, and a couple. During the conversation, Zu Zhou joked, "Young man, watch carefully how your girlfriend eats lamb ribs, because this will determine whether you can afford to support her in the future." The reason is that if the lamb ribs are not eaten cleanly and there is still some meat left, it means that the girl is very wasteful. From this detail, it can be seen that she does not know how to manage the household. From another perspective, it can be seen that this girl has a short patience. When we heard it, we all laughed so hard that we fell down. If you think about it carefully, it makes sense.

There were several people who were about to get married and asked me, "After living together before, what other tricks do I have to test my partner for the last time?" Given that love, romance and marriage are different concepts. The trick I give is: go travel with him. The reason is simple. To see a person clearly, you cannot do so under normal circumstances, but only at extraordinary times.

There are many extraordinary moments when it is not convenient to create one, such as when you are seriously ill, when you are hit by a car, when a war suddenly breaks out, and so on. Traveling is a relatively achievable abnormal moment. In extraordinary moments, you can see a person's true nature. Because at normal times, that is his familiar territory, and you can only see one or two sides of him.

When you travel to a strange place, you are testing his ability to survive, his IQ and ability to take action when faced with emergencies, and most importantly, his true tolerance for you - this is actually an early preview of his attitude towards you after you have been married for a few years. A person who claims to love you, after you have become very familiar with each other, treats you during travel roughly the same way he treats you after marriage - the troubles during travel are not even 1/n of the troubles after marriage. If at this time he treats you not only without care and tolerance, but instead thinks that you are a burden, you can roughly imagine how you will be treated if an emergency occurs to you after marriage.

Unfortunately, several of my friends listened to my advice and immediately followed it, and then they never got married. I felt a little guilty at first, but later they all thanked me for pulling them back from the edge of the cliff, and I no longer felt guilty.

By the way, if your partner is an experienced travel enthusiast, don’t use the trick of traveling together.