4 best private things to do after orgasm

When he comes back from the excitement of ejaculation, you can start the plan of physical contact by flirting and caressing: press your front body against his back, so that every cell from his back to his toes can feel your exquisite curves slightly...

1. Feel each other's breath

Just because a man won't whisper to one another about how great flirting and caressing are doesn't mean he doesn't like to just lie comfortably next to you and cuddle with you all night long. So, even if your man always looks ecstatic, numb and exhausted after having sex, maintaining a certain level of physical contact will actually prolong his satisfaction.

When he comes back from the excitement of ejaculation, you can start the plan of physical contact through teasing and caressing: press your front body against his back, so that every cell from his back to his toes can gently feel your exquisite curves; in addition, you can also use your nails to gently slide back and forth on his wrists to elbows, or stroke his hair with the palm of your hand.

2. Play some intimate games

If you have excess energy but don't plan to play again, you might as well play a passionate little game, which can also bring the intimacy between the two of you to a higher level. You can play a "bubble bath sex war" with him, which is so intense that it can make up for the feeling of having sex a second time. If you, like most people, don't have soapy water readily available, there are plenty of other ways to get rid of your excess energy. For example, add some sandalwood oil to the bathtub, ask him to take a bath with you, or have a pillow fight, or put on some music and dance naked together.

3. Revealing Childhood Anecdotes

After climax, sometimes you don’t need any physical contact to keep your hearts closely connected, because there is no expectation at this time, so chatting in bed becomes the best way to enhance mutual understanding and intimacy without any pressure. However, this is not a good time to talk about serious issues or criticize your boyfriend's sex skills. There are other more appropriate times to discuss problems in the relationship. Use this moment to create intimacy, not oppression.

4. Keep up the good work

Sometimes the end is just the beginning of another round. Even if the first round is exciting enough, the second round can be just as interesting. You might as well change things up by presenting a different visual style: do a striptease for him, let him watch you put on sexy lace bra and panties while twisting your body, and arouse his desire to take those things off you again.

It doesn't matter if he doesn't have these props, just a button-down shirt is enough to make him itchy. If that doesn't work, show him your feminine skills and go straight to his perineum. Gently massage and caress this approximately one-inch area to stimulate blood circulation, ensuring that he'll be a strong man again in no time.