The secret of how much men care about women's past

As times change to the present day, how much do men today care about a woman's chastity? As we all know, many men now care a lot about a woman's first time. Many men have a virgin complex. When they find out that their girlfriend is not a virgin, they always feel that the other person is not clean. Men always feel that once they have captured a woman’s first time, they should cherish her and treat her well for the rest of their lives. However, for non-virgins, even if they loved each other very much before, their feelings for her will be greatly discounted. It can be seen that no matter how the times change, men still attach great importance to women's chastity.

1. Men’s Virginity Complex

Even though the degree of sexual openness is much greater than before, men's "virgin complex" is still deeply ingrained in their bones. Men always allow the officials to set fires but not the common people to light lamps. They allow themselves to make mistakes, but have many demands on women. Not only men are like this, but the whole society is like this. It seems that it is natural for men to cheat, but it is an unforgivable crime for women to cheat. Precisely because virgins are almost extinct, men pursue virgins more and care more about a woman’s first time.

Many men will get upset when they find out their wives are not virgins after marriage, and this emotion will become an excuse for them to cheat in the future.

Unlike women, women desire men with rich emotions so that they know how to take care of themselves, while men hope that their women are a blank slate. In their opinion, if a woman has too rich love history, she must have made physical sacrifices. Their male chauvinism forces them to hope that the women they want are always silly, so that they can have a desire to conquer and a sense of accomplishment.

2. A woman’s precious first time

A woman’s first time is when she is shy and willing to give in, which makes the man unable to bear to be rude to her and makes the man carefully protect her, and it also arouses the man’s desire to protect the woman. After this first time, the relationship between man and woman has been further advanced and become more intimate. For the first time, the door to women's sexuality is opened, guiding them to pursue the pleasure of orgasm. Regardless of whether the first time is pleasant or not, it is the most unforgettable experience for men and women. It is an honor to be a partner of the first night.

A woman's first time only comes once in her life, it is so precious, how can a man not cherish it? Therefore, men care about a woman's first time, and love virgins even more. They always care about whether their girlfriends or future wives are virgins. Virginity has a very important and extraordinary meaning to men.

If you ask what kind of woman is most attractive to men, it must be a woman's reserve, gentleness like water and charm. Maybe you will say that many women can give these things, but the most natural and simple thing is for Virgo to give them, and this is what makes Virgo most attractive to men.

3. Men like women with low emotional intelligence

A virgin does not necessarily have never been in love, because even if she is in love, she will not necessarily devote herself to the man. However, most men still think that virgins have lower emotional intelligence, and men just like women with low emotional intelligence.

A non-virgin must be a woman with a rich love history and must have high emotional intelligence. As for men, they like women with low emotional intelligence. They think silly girls are cute and will listen to them. Girls with too high emotional intelligence will give them an invisible pressure. They like to "hunt for beauty" in the love field, but they don't like to be "hunted for beauty." A man may be a sex expert, but he is unwilling to compete with an expert in bed. This is not only due to his virgin complex, but also because of his desire for conquest and his face and dignity as a man that he cannot accept.

Men all love face and vanity. They will show off in front of their friends that their girlfriend is a virgin, and they will wait for their friends' cheers, applause and envious looks. So, from another perspective, when a man loves a virgin, it doesn’t really matter whether the woman is a virgin or not, but rather it matters more about his own face and vanity.

4. Hymen ≠ first time

Many men think that the hymen equals the first time, which leads many women to go to the hospital for hymen repair surgery, hoping to keep the man. But in fact, the hymen does not equal the first time.

In today's world where everything can be faked, men no longer believe in the hymen. What's more, men don't just love the hymen, men love a woman's first time, men love virgins.

Hidden beneath the hymen are a woman's countless first times, and what one loves is the beauty and charm that lies beneath those countless times. Women who have had too much sexual experience think that men will not be able to tell the difference because of the cover of the hymen. However, a man's eyes are sharp, and he can distinguish which ones are natural expressions and which ones are artificial coquettishness. If a woman always has marginal sex with other men and does everything except sexual intercourse, what is the meaning of this membrane to men?

Therefore, hymen ≠ first time, don't do any surgery to please men, men are not stupid! And women don't need to hurt themselves simply to please men, it's really not worth it. A man who abandons you because you are not a virgin is really not worth your cherishing!