5 details to help you identify a shameless cheating man

Detail 1: Mobile phone

1. When the phone rings, he carefully checks the incoming number and answers the call without giving the other party a chance to say anything: "I'll call you back later."

2. When answering a call, hum or haw while secretly pressing the volume control switch (usually the earpiece volume control switch is located on the side of the phone, which is very convenient for adjusting when answering a call. Although this little action is subtle, it is not difficult to spot if you pay attention).

3. When he is dating you, he usually turns off his cell phone; when you call him, you often find that he has turned off his cell phone for no reason.

4. Reject the call and tell you with an unnatural expression: "This is a very troublesome customer."

5. Whether driving or walking side by side with you on the road, I am used to answering the phone with the ear that is farther away from you.

6. For some calls, he answers them openly in front of you, but for other calls, he goes to another room or a place a little distance away from you to answer them.

If you can match three or more (including three) of the above six items, you can almost be 100% sure that this is a cheating man, and the evidence for the first three items is the most critical.

Detail 2: Dating judgment

1. When going on a date with you, but when he receives a phone call he says that there is something going on at work or that the boss wants him to work overtime, and then leaves in a hurry.

2. Being late for dates on important or sensitive holidays such as Valentine's Day, or leaving early with an excuse of having something else to do, or even simply standing you up.

3. Refuse to plan a date far away. For example, after a date this week, you ask him if he is free next Sunday, and he says thoughtfully, "We'll see then."

4. Often disappear. He could not be reached by phone, QQ, or MSN, and when he showed up again he said he was in a bad mood.

5. He cannot be with you after work or on weekends, and every date ends almost at the same time.

6. He suddenly asks you out of the blue without making an appointment with you in advance; however, when you suddenly attack him, he always has a reason to refuse.

If the above six items appear occasionally, it may be because you are busy at work or have a sudden appointment with friends. However, if they appear in turns, it is more suspicious. If the last two items appear frequently, it is possible that the man you are dating is not only cheating, but is also married or has a stable cohabiting partner.

Detail 3: Go to his house and explore endlessly

1. Look at the overall situation - if a single man’s home is too clean, it can be considered a primary suspicion, especially if even the quilts and sheets are as clean as new, and there are dolls, toys, or beautiful small vases placed on the home.

However, if he is a doctor or a Virgo, the suspicion can be discounted because they are most likely just mysophobic men rather than having a mistress. If the furnishings in his home are too simple and he has very few clothes to change into, then he probably has another home.

2. Observe the key points - Generally speaking, if women visit his house frequently, he will pay more attention to the texture of the bed and the pattern and quality of the bedding.

3. Focus on the key points - the bathroom must be the focus of inspection. Single men rarely place a trash can next to the toilet in the bathroom. You may also find sanitary pads, bath bombs, and shower gel (according to surveys, men seldom buy shower gel unless it is a company benefit). The number of women's cleaning products, slippers, towels and toothbrushes on the washstand speaks volumes; you only need to go to the bathroom to see it all.

If your relationship is going well, you might as well find out the location of his home. When you are sure he is at home, rush downstairs as quickly as possible and call him saying that you happened to be passing by and wanted to come up to check on him. This will prevent him from having ample time to destroy the evidence and will also prevent him from running away.

Reminder: Go with your girlfriend so that there will be an extra pair of eyes to observe and there will be fewer misunderstandings about having romantic relationships.

Detail 4: Judging by his circle

1. His good colleague or good friend is cheating on you or has a chaotic relationship between a man and a woman. You say behind his back that the man is shameless, but he doesn’t take it seriously and may even get angry.

2. When he plays with colleagues or friends, someone occasionally jokes with him using a girl's name, and he becomes uncharacteristically angry or makes a gleam.

3. When introducing you to his circle, just say your name instead of mentioning your relationship with him.

You can choose those relatively kind-hearted and honest people among his friends as your main targets. Occasionally, lightly confide your concerns: "Yesterday, a friend of mine said he saw him watching a movie with another girl in the cinema. How could that be possible?" "I often dream of him being with others. Are dreams the opposite of reality?"

If the other person simply tells you not to worry and lists his many good qualities, you can put your mind at ease for the time being. If the other party is evasive and unwilling to answer, there is a problem.

It is easier to get the truth from his colleagues, friends' girlfriends or wives. Let your interactions flow naturally. Use your radar to keenly capture the information that comes to your door. Don't ask too many questions, so as not to arouse women's curiosity and artificially ruin his reputation.

Detail 5: Know a man by his clothes

1. Suddenly become fond of looking in the mirror and complain that there is nothing to wear in the closet.

2. In the past, you always bought clothes for him, but now he suddenly brings back some new clothes of suspicious origin, explaining that they were given by clients, distributed at meetings, or he just happened to buy them when he passed by a mall.

3. There has been a significant change in dressing styles, with people starting to pay particular attention to the quality of underwear. In the past, people could still wear torn underwear, but now they absolutely cannot do that. Even overnight, he changed his underwear into brand new ones, which were quite fashionable and sexy.

4. Although there may not be much change on the surface, small personal items such as socks, towels, ties, briefcases, razors, drinking cups, etc. can be "renewed" in a short period of time.

5. One or two days a week he dresses himself with extra care. Without exception, you receive a call asking for leave just when it's almost time to get off work. The reasons are as follows: working overtime, accompanying clients, and meeting old classmates.

The prerequisite for judging a man’s qualitative change by his outfit is that you are very familiar with him and understand his personality and past clothing preferences. If you have been in a relationship for more than half a year, then his sudden change in style is obviously not because of you.

In fact, it is very easy to understand that when a woman falls in love, she will dress up to please the man she is looking for and "transform" herself to suit his preferences. This phenomenon is also very obvious in quite a number of men. The fact that he suddenly had so many small objects of unknown origin was particularly suspicious.